Weekend Wrap up
Last week I was debating whether or not to go to OS' Smokin' Aces party, but everything worked out in my favor and I ended up making it to the party. The party was dope. Things didn't go as planned with OS and I but I got to chill and spend time with my BFF Van for the little time that I was there. I want to give a more detailed account so I'll start at the beginning. When we got to the party, it was pretty much empty, so Van decided to take me to check out this comedy spot. Before we headed out, OS tried me in a major way. To be blunt, there was a pretty good chance that it would have went down had he not opened his big mouth and spoiled that. Basically, instead of falling back and letting things go down as they should have, he came at me on some Ron Burgundy "I want to be on you" type shit. In that instant, I wasn't feeling that situation anymore. Before he could even ask me how my day was, he blurted that shit out. And what gets me is that he actually thought it was going to work. I don't think I was giving off that kind off vibe. I was and am feeling him so I definitely think it was gonna go down, but I'm not so sure now. We'll see... So fast forward...Van and I headed back to the comedy joint after we said our initial hellos. We waited in line for so long at the comedy show that we decided to head back to the party. By time we got back, the party was jumping and everything was cool. Since OS tried me like he did, I tried not to say anything to him all night. I just clung to Van as much as I could. I think OS thought that something was going on with me and Van, but there wasn't, I just didn't want him to have another opportunity to be around me alone.
The whole party and the whole night pretty much consisted of Van introducing me to his friends and associates. He's pretty much a big deal. It was a cool experience for me, but I have to admit, having people run up on us like that was kinda annoying after a while. As we were walking out, I passed we passed OS. He didn't say anything to me, but he kinda gave me a weird look. The next day, he sent me a text asking what Van and I did after the party. Then he said never mind. I told him that our friendship wasn't even like that and that I'm cool with Van's lady so he could get that thought out of his head. He really pissed me off, but I need somewhere to stay in October, so I'm gonna have to suck it and deal with his perversion for the time being.
So fast forward to last night. I call Van's lady to catch up since the last time we talked and tell her about the time I had this weekend. To give you a little insight, before I finally decided that I was going to the party, Van and I got into a little bullshit argument. Since we smoothed everything over, I decided to go ahead and go ahead and do what I planned to do. So when I tell "Lady" that we had gotten into it prior to my going there, she took it totally out of context and came at him on some bullshit. For one, she said she felt like she was being disrespected because he didn't tell her in advance that I was coming. I don't see how that's a problem because for one, I was originally going to see OS in the first place. Number two, I didn't even know if I was gonna make it until the day before the party so how could he have given her any advance notice if he didn't even have any to give her. Then she totally twisted my words around and made it seem like I was going up there to make up with Van or whatever. Bitch please! First of all, I've been knowing this man is 2003 and we've been through way worst shit than that dumb argument. Why the fuck would I need to make a special visit to this dude to patch some minor shit when we worked that shit out ELECTRONICALLY. That's nothing. I went through three extremes last night. First it was shock, because basically this chick wasn't being genuine from the beginning. She was just using me to get information on him and I don't appreciate that in the least. The second was sadness because I feel bad that I had something to do with the discord in his relationship with her even though it's not my fault. I just hate to see my friend hurting. And the third is anger. I swear, my love and respect for him, is the only thing not calling that girl and going APE SHIT on her! I can't stand a trifling motherfucker and I've been nothing but 100 % genuine with her. She called me tonight but I didn't answer. Part of me wanted to just to see what she was going to say because I'm not sure if Van is talking to her or straight cutting her off. But the other part of me is so done with that girl.
The whole party and the whole night pretty much consisted of Van introducing me to his friends and associates. He's pretty much a big deal. It was a cool experience for me, but I have to admit, having people run up on us like that was kinda annoying after a while. As we were walking out, I passed we passed OS. He didn't say anything to me, but he kinda gave me a weird look. The next day, he sent me a text asking what Van and I did after the party. Then he said never mind. I told him that our friendship wasn't even like that and that I'm cool with Van's lady so he could get that thought out of his head. He really pissed me off, but I need somewhere to stay in October, so I'm gonna have to suck it and deal with his perversion for the time being.
So fast forward to last night. I call Van's lady to catch up since the last time we talked and tell her about the time I had this weekend. To give you a little insight, before I finally decided that I was going to the party, Van and I got into a little bullshit argument. Since we smoothed everything over, I decided to go ahead and go ahead and do what I planned to do. So when I tell "Lady" that we had gotten into it prior to my going there, she took it totally out of context and came at him on some bullshit. For one, she said she felt like she was being disrespected because he didn't tell her in advance that I was coming. I don't see how that's a problem because for one, I was originally going to see OS in the first place. Number two, I didn't even know if I was gonna make it until the day before the party so how could he have given her any advance notice if he didn't even have any to give her. Then she totally twisted my words around and made it seem like I was going up there to make up with Van or whatever. Bitch please! First of all, I've been knowing this man is 2003 and we've been through way worst shit than that dumb argument. Why the fuck would I need to make a special visit to this dude to patch some minor shit when we worked that shit out ELECTRONICALLY. That's nothing. I went through three extremes last night. First it was shock, because basically this chick wasn't being genuine from the beginning. She was just using me to get information on him and I don't appreciate that in the least. The second was sadness because I feel bad that I had something to do with the discord in his relationship with her even though it's not my fault. I just hate to see my friend hurting. And the third is anger. I swear, my love and respect for him, is the only thing not calling that girl and going APE SHIT on her! I can't stand a trifling motherfucker and I've been nothing but 100 % genuine with her. She called me tonight but I didn't answer. Part of me wanted to just to see what she was going to say because I'm not sure if Van is talking to her or straight cutting her off. But the other part of me is so done with that girl.