Wow, what the hell was that?

[priest_of_gix]

Alright, this entry isn't really for me. It's a wake up call to our friend Kim and how much of a ass she can be to all of us. Deidra really did work her heart out tonight to make a fire. Even though I didn't think it was such a good idea I know she put a lot of effort into it and I wanted to make her happy so I went out to spend some time with her

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[anonymous]

Well, in Kim’s defense she did clearly state that she didn’t want to go out there, and if I heard you correctly you didn’t really want to either. So Deidra clearly did what she did under the information that no one actually wanted to do, so for her to get upset over this was purely her own choice. Am I right? But nonetheless this really isn’t about that situation, is it? It’s about Kim and how she’s being selfish-I’d like to say that “no, she isn’t.” but honestly she can be, and she gets up-set when things don’t go her way… kind of like how Deidra reacted to the fire situation… I guess the moral of this is things don’t always go the way you want them to, and you should just take it as it comes and “don’t cry over spilt milk”. Now in Deidra’s defense she did work really hard to do what she did, but considering that fact that even you went out just so she didn’t get up-set is also along the same lines… personally I would rather just not get all up-set over this because people don’t always do what you want them too, hence deidra’s anger, and Kim’s problems, now I’m not saying I’m free of problems and nor and I saying Mike is… it’s just the way it goes sometimes, and getting angry over it is just silly.

Kim’s issues mostly revolve around stress with many different things, and if you recall there was an agreement to allow both Kim and Deidra to work out their problems, and I know you’re not stupid but let me be redundant… problems don’t just disappear. It takes time. That’s all I have to say.

I’m choosing to stay apathetic through this whole thing, but we need to give the girls time to work on this, they’ve probably been this way their whole lives so change will be slow and difficult. I apologies for the way Kim has acted, but she’s trying just give her a chance… she’s trying… and I know Deidra has had her share of issues revolving her anger problem but just because she flips out over small things sometimes, you two just need to talk about it and try to get it out of the way and work on helping her… not just respond to her anger with more anger. We’re all great friends and I want it to stay that way, some of my best times have been with you guys, and I don’t want it to end over some small issue such as this. If anything we’re all equally at fault for something. I admit that.

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[priest_of_gix]

Ok perhaps I went a little overboard. But if you saw how crushed and upset Deidra had been over the whole thing you'd wanna say something too right?

I mean it's like cooking a huge meal all day and when everyone comes home to eat no one wants it. I know she worked really hard and I know we told her she shouldn't and stuff so I get what you're saying but..

Don't you get somewhat upset when Deidra or someone else upsets Kim? I guess I overreacted like that. It's kinda hard not to when she gets upset a lot. So I apologize.