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To anyone reading, particularly males... Do not become friends with and spend time with a person only for the purposes of being able to hook up with them. If you say you are a friend you should be a friend and not turn away from that person and/or shut them out if your romantic intentions are shot down. It's a crappy and hurtful thing to do. Also, do not abandon friends of the opposite sex simple because you are dating someone.