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Jun 13, 2006 14:11

THIS IS WHAT MY WIFE WROTE AND I STAND BEHIND THIS 100%. I WILL SAY THIS WE ARE NOT HERE TO PLEASE ANYONE BUT OURSELVES. SORRY IF THIS MIGHT AOFFEND ANYONE. WE ARE IN THE PROCESS OF GETTING RID OF ALL THE BAD ELEMENTS AND PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES. PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS. I AM NOT ABOUT TO HAVE PEOPLE IN MY LIFE THAT WANT TO SIT THERE AND CALL MY WIFE A WHORE AND SHIT. THAT IS SO FAR FROM THE TRUTH. MY WIFE IS NOT FROM THIS STATE. SHE IS FROM CHICAGO. I AM THE ONLY FAMILY SHE HAS HERE. SHE MOVED HER TO TAKE CARE OF HER SICK FATHER THAT IS DISABLED AND NOW THAT HE MOVED OUT OF STATE HER JOB IS DONE. SHE COULD OF MOVED BACK TO CHICAGO BUT SHE CHOSE TO STAY WITH ME AND MARRY ME OUT OF LOVE. IF YOU CAN NOT SEE THIS WELL THAN FUCK YOU. I AM NOT HERE TO PLEASE YOU. MAKING HER HAPPY IS ALL I LIVE FOR.

WELL JON AND I EMBARKING ON A LIFE TOGETHER. WE BOTH REALIZE THAT GETTING MARRIED CHANGES EVERYTHING. WE THOUGHT LONG AND HARD AND TALKED MANY TIMES OVER GETTING MARRIED. WE KNOW THAT THIS IS A LIFETIME COMMITMENT WE ARE MAKING TO EACH OTHER. WE ALSO REALIZE THAT WE ARE MARRIED AND IT IS NOT HIM OR I ANYMORE IT IS US!!!! WE ARE NOT PERFECT IN ANYWAY BUT WITH THE LOVE WE SHARE FOR EACH OTHER WE BELIEVE THAT OUR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE WILL GROW INTO SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL. FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT HAVE KNOWN JONATHAN OVER THE YEARS, I HOPE YOU SEE THE CHANGE THAT HAS OCCURED IN HIM. HE IS NOT A BOY ANYMORE. HE HAS TURNED INTO THIS WONDERFUL MAN! I MAN THAT I DEARLY LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART. DO NOT GET ME WRONG, JONATHAN AND I, ARE NOT PERFECT BY ANY MEANS, AND NEITHER IS OUR RELATIONSHIP. WE HAVE OUR UPS AND DOWNS JUST LIKE ANY ONE ELSE, BUT NO MATTER WHAT WE ARE MAKING IT TOGETHER AND WE LOVE AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER. I UNDERSTAND THIS IS HARD FOR JONATHAN AND I AM A PATIENT PERSON. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE. I HAVE LIVED ON MY OWN BEFORE. I KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE OR BREAK A MARRIAGE FOR THAT MATTER. I KNOW WHAT RESPONSIBILITY IS. JONATHAN IS JUST BEGINNING TO LEARN WHAT THAT IS. I AM GOING TO SUPPORT HIM AND HELP HIM THE BEST I CAN AND KNOW HOW. WE HAVE SET GOALS THAT ARE VERY IMPROTANT TO US. WE WANT TO RENT AN APARTMENT ON OUR OWN BY THE END OF THE MONTH. THAT IS ALREADY IN THE WORKS. WE ARE ALSO HOPING THAT WITH IN THE NEXT 6 MONTHS TO RENT A HOUSE. THIS IS ALSO VERY MUCH GOING TO HAPPEN HENSE A GOOD PAYING JOB THAT I HAVE LANDED. JONATHAN ALSO IS IN THE PROCESS OF GETTING A JOB RUNNING KAROAKE 5 NIGHTS A WEEK. THIS WILL BE BRINGING IN A GOOD LEVEL OF INCOME FOR HIM. I ALSO INTEND TO SEND HIM TO COLLEGE IN THE FALL TO BETTER HIS EDUCATION. WE ARE FINALLY DOING THINGS THAT OUR GOING TO BETTER US AND OUR RELATIONSHIP.

JONATHAN AND I HAVE HAD A FEW PROBLEMS WITH PEOPLE SINCE WE GOT MARRIED AND HE HAS BEEN REALLY HURT OVER WHAT PEOPLE HAVE SAID.

FIRST OFF, WE ARE NOT ASKING FOR APPROVAL OVER OUR MARRIAGE. WHAT MATTERS MOST TO US IS THAT IT WAS A CHOICE WE MADE AND STAND BEHIND 100% BOTH OF OUR PARENTS FULLY APPROVED OF IT AND FELT IT WAS A WISE DECISION ON OUR PART. THEY SEE HOW MUCH WE LOVE AND CARE FOR EACH OTHER.

SECOND OF ALL WE ARE NOT TRYING TO SHOW OFF IN ANY WAY. PLEASE UNDERSTAND WE ARE STILL IN THE HONEYMOONER FAZE OF OUR MARRIAGE AND JONATHAN IS SO EXCITED AND SO AM I OVER OUR CHOICE OF BECOMING MAN AND WIFE. WE BOTH HAVE HAD A ROCKY PAST AND HAVE HAD FAILED RELATIONSHIPS AND KNOW HOW IMPORTANT WE ARE TO EACH OTHER. THAT IS ALL.

WE ARE IN LOVE. WE ARE NOW HUSBAND AND WIFE. NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT AWAY FROM US
PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT FRIENDS COME AND GO OVER YOUR LIFETIME, BUT YOUR MARRIAGE IS WHAT WILL MATTER MOST IN LIFE.
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