undecided

[prettyhun01]

Im not sure what to do... part of me wants to keep the baby. the other part goes "YOU IDIOT! YOURE 16!!! TOO YOUNG!!!" but then that other part reasons... 'well it happened, and you know dan will be there for you and he wont leave you, so you'll be okay... and it is yours and its a part of you..." and then the other part "but it willbe s difficult

Comments

[panda_fluff]

what what what? are you for real?

[prettyhun01]

Yes im for real... and i know i shouldnt want it cuz im only 16 and i cant support it.. but i cant help but want it!!!! Oh what do I do now??

[panda_fluff]

if you plan on raising a kid, you've gotta think about the kid. Can you give it the life it needs? You're still 16, if you're not ready to devote yourself to raising a kid, the kid isn't going to have a happy childhood. If you're worried about killing it, also remember adoption. Not only will the child be able to live a life, it will probably be with people who love kids very much but are unable to have them. It's not just about the kid, it's about you too. Remember if you keep it you will be responsible for two lives: yours and your childs. If both of those lives can't be happy, the situation will turn out to be more like a chore instead of a blessing. Only you know what you really want to do, and please ask other people about what they think. They might tell you something you never thought of that will help you make your decision. *kiss* best of luck, I love you *hug*

[prettyhun01]

I know, I'm really young. And that's dan's argument. He wants to be financially stable and at least have a house/apartment of his own before he has kids. But I can't help it, I really really want this baby. The longer I think about what I should do, the more and more I want to keep it. I know it will be hard, but I think I could handle it. I know Dan still feels like he's too young-- which I understand-- but I could handle it by myself/ with my friends/ with my parents until he was ready. I really want it (and so does he but he just feels we're not ready and we're too young) but I don't know what to do. And I'm running out of time.

[prettyhun01]

Oh and thank you a bunch for your opinion. I need a lot of help making this decision. And I love you too...

*I just wish I was like, 2 years ... even 1 year older!!!*