Chhh Chhhh Chhhhannnggggeeessss
So, Al and I are moving out, probably in the next week or so. I can't handle my Mom 'kicking me out' over things like bench seating and saying 'Thank you'.... pretty much redic.
We can afford it now more then ever and I am ready to just start my life, sick of standing still while having abuse hurled at me.
Now the problem of course is... my Grandma is really sick, like dying sick. And my Mom's mood has been because of that (or so she claims, as soon as my Grandma passes it'll be a new reason for her being a total bitch). So, how do we tell her we took her seriously this time when she told us to get out? We've tried to leave countless times before and she has guilted me into staying. This time that won't be the case, I'm over t. I'm not even sad or scared or worried about it. Al and I will survive, everyone does.
My Mom's friend Ms. K gave me the best perspective on the situation... my Mom isn't going to get any better until Al and I go. She just can't handle it. We're adults and she wants to still tell us how to do EVERYTHING and I'm tired of it...
Just ready for change, :]
We can afford it now more then ever and I am ready to just start my life, sick of standing still while having abuse hurled at me.
Now the problem of course is... my Grandma is really sick, like dying sick. And my Mom's mood has been because of that (or so she claims, as soon as my Grandma passes it'll be a new reason for her being a total bitch). So, how do we tell her we took her seriously this time when she told us to get out? We've tried to leave countless times before and she has guilted me into staying. This time that won't be the case, I'm over t. I'm not even sad or scared or worried about it. Al and I will survive, everyone does.
My Mom's friend Ms. K gave me the best perspective on the situation... my Mom isn't going to get any better until Al and I go. She just can't handle it. We're adults and she wants to still tell us how to do EVERYTHING and I'm tired of it...
Just ready for change, :]