*double gonk*
Ok...So now the trip is off. Dave cancelled at the last minute. I guess it wasn't a good weekend anyhow. But, they wanted us to stay the night on Sat. And there was no possible way that we could. Unfortunately, I was never under the impression that they wanted us to do that until like two days before the trip. So, I told Alan that we couldn't. Shane leaves next thursday. My parents aren't gonna see him again for months. I can't keep him out until monday. That's just not possible.
Ok so Steph call's...she still wants us to go up there and see her. As much as I want to...I don't have extra cash for us to do something while we are there. She just moved into her apartment...she has no tv or internet atm. So we would simply just sit there all weekend long. I'm so not doing that. I know she is probably pissed off at me right now. And I'm extremely sorry about that. So then I suggested we do it another time. However, her husband isn't a "people" person or something to that affect and we would possibly never get to meet her like ever. Umm hello....I don't get that. So we would have to lie about ever meeting her in the first place. Again though...I want to go up there. I really really do. But, I'm not going to drive 9 hours to sit in an apartment and do nothing. There is no logical sense in that. I love Steph to pieces. And I truly hope she doesn't stay mad at me for that. It was one thing to drive up there...stay a couple of hours and chat..go to sleep...then drive to Crystal and Daves house...stay a few hours...drive back to Stephs...go to sleep..then drive home the next day. When you only have money for gas...yeah...that's idealistic since we all want to meet up and such. But yeah...I'm sure yall get the point.
Too many issues...just not worth it right now. I'd rather wait until we can "plan" it better and actually have some money to do something on. That way it feels more like a vacation than a drive and sit kind of thing.
Ok so Steph call's...she still wants us to go up there and see her. As much as I want to...I don't have extra cash for us to do something while we are there. She just moved into her apartment...she has no tv or internet atm. So we would simply just sit there all weekend long. I'm so not doing that. I know she is probably pissed off at me right now. And I'm extremely sorry about that. So then I suggested we do it another time. However, her husband isn't a "people" person or something to that affect and we would possibly never get to meet her like ever. Umm hello....I don't get that. So we would have to lie about ever meeting her in the first place. Again though...I want to go up there. I really really do. But, I'm not going to drive 9 hours to sit in an apartment and do nothing. There is no logical sense in that. I love Steph to pieces. And I truly hope she doesn't stay mad at me for that. It was one thing to drive up there...stay a couple of hours and chat..go to sleep...then drive to Crystal and Daves house...stay a few hours...drive back to Stephs...go to sleep..then drive home the next day. When you only have money for gas...yeah...that's idealistic since we all want to meet up and such. But yeah...I'm sure yall get the point.
Too many issues...just not worth it right now. I'd rather wait until we can "plan" it better and actually have some money to do something on. That way it feels more like a vacation than a drive and sit kind of thing.