Update on missing the birth
First of all i'd like to thank all of you lovely ladies who took the time to read my post and give me your opinions on how i should take my husband saying he wasn't going to be there for the labor. I really appreciated everyone's different perspective and ideas as to why he had said that. To update you, we have another conversation and i asked some pointed questions to make sure it wasn't fear, come to find out it was more worrying about not being able to provide for his growing family. I asked him to talk it over with his boss, and he totally did! and guess what!! His boss said when the time comes they'll work it out, so he totally gets to be there when i do go into labor. PHEW! I am sooooo relieved. :)