what would you ask for?
This may seem silly, but I need ideas on what to tell people I want for my baby shower. Thing is, I already have two boys under four, had baby showers for each of them. My mom insisted I have a shower for this baby as it is a girl. I said I wanted a party for guys and girls to celebrate the coming life, but not a shower or gifts. She was fine with that. But now that the invites are out, most who have rsvp'd want to know what to get us for gifts. I do not need any big things, and most small things I ended up not using with my other kids. Family has already started buying clothes for us. So I have no clue what to tell people to get us, or a tactful way to say we appreciate the offer but we are good. What would you do/say?