I turn to you. Or at least, I did.
My sister used to be my best friend. She's Elizabeth's godmother. She was my maid of honor. We had so many little inside jokes.
But that's all changed. Actually, it seems to change whenever she starts dating someone. She tends to put her boyfriend before EVERYONE, herself included. You'd think she'd have learned with her ex. He cheated on her numerous times and then moved in with another girl 2 weeks after breaking up with my sister. But no.
Now she's dating a new guy. He's 6 years older, and 10 times more immature and irresponsible. 28 years old, 2 kids by 2 different women, he's a waiter, no car, so he uses my sister's car, putting unneccessary mileage on it, he's obnoxiously loud, he smokes pot daily, and my sister tends to pay for everything. Oh, and did I mention they've been dating 3 months...and she moved in with him a month ago? Why so soon?? Because it made it easier on her since she had to drive him to and from work.
I don't like him. And I hate the fact that my sister is staying with him. I don't think she's truly happy. Why does she keep going to stupid guys?
But it's not my life, right? She has to learn from her mistakes. I just hope she doesn't marry him. That would be a hard wedding to sit through. I'm not sure I'd be able to.
Meanwhile, my marriage seems to be rapidly deteriorating. I swear, we hate each other. I honestly believe if it were not for the kids, we wouldn't be together. God, I've made some stupid decisions over the years, and now I'm stuck. I doubt I'll ever be happy with life. You guys have no idea.
I have to admit, it feels good to get this out. Lord knows I can't blog about this on my MySpace....too many gossipy family members and stupid fake bitches.
Thoughts and prayers are always appreciated. Lord knows I need them.
But that's all changed. Actually, it seems to change whenever she starts dating someone. She tends to put her boyfriend before EVERYONE, herself included. You'd think she'd have learned with her ex. He cheated on her numerous times and then moved in with another girl 2 weeks after breaking up with my sister. But no.
Now she's dating a new guy. He's 6 years older, and 10 times more immature and irresponsible. 28 years old, 2 kids by 2 different women, he's a waiter, no car, so he uses my sister's car, putting unneccessary mileage on it, he's obnoxiously loud, he smokes pot daily, and my sister tends to pay for everything. Oh, and did I mention they've been dating 3 months...and she moved in with him a month ago? Why so soon?? Because it made it easier on her since she had to drive him to and from work.
I don't like him. And I hate the fact that my sister is staying with him. I don't think she's truly happy. Why does she keep going to stupid guys?
But it's not my life, right? She has to learn from her mistakes. I just hope she doesn't marry him. That would be a hard wedding to sit through. I'm not sure I'd be able to.
Meanwhile, my marriage seems to be rapidly deteriorating. I swear, we hate each other. I honestly believe if it were not for the kids, we wouldn't be together. God, I've made some stupid decisions over the years, and now I'm stuck. I doubt I'll ever be happy with life. You guys have no idea.
I have to admit, it feels good to get this out. Lord knows I can't blog about this on my MySpace....too many gossipy family members and stupid fake bitches.
Thoughts and prayers are always appreciated. Lord knows I need them.