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hi there.
im not actually a teen Mom, but had my first baby when i was 15 and she lives with my ex girlfriend and with the situation i'm in now, i thought this might be the most relevant place to gather support and information.
Long story short, i found out last night that i am 4.5 months pregnant. i got pregnant over the summer with a guy who's not my partner (me and my boyfriend of 6 years have an open relationship) It was completley unexpected, i used a condom, and now i'm trying to figure out what to do. i don't want an abortion, and i can only get one legally for another week anyways. i'm pretty sure i'm going to give it up for adoption, neither me nor my partner are ready for a kid for another couple of years. Both of us are students and well on our way to graduating university.
i didn;'t know i was pregnant, and even my doctor managed to not diagnose it during a pap smear in september. it was beleved that instead i have polycystic ovaries and that was what was making me feel horrible. With my increased prolactin levels, it was thought that i may have a tumour and i was about to be sent for catscans.
i guess i'm still just in a bit of shock and disbelief but i wanted to introduce myself.
im not actually a teen Mom, but had my first baby when i was 15 and she lives with my ex girlfriend and with the situation i'm in now, i thought this might be the most relevant place to gather support and information.
Long story short, i found out last night that i am 4.5 months pregnant. i got pregnant over the summer with a guy who's not my partner (me and my boyfriend of 6 years have an open relationship) It was completley unexpected, i used a condom, and now i'm trying to figure out what to do. i don't want an abortion, and i can only get one legally for another week anyways. i'm pretty sure i'm going to give it up for adoption, neither me nor my partner are ready for a kid for another couple of years. Both of us are students and well on our way to graduating university.
i didn;'t know i was pregnant, and even my doctor managed to not diagnose it during a pap smear in september. it was beleved that instead i have polycystic ovaries and that was what was making me feel horrible. With my increased prolactin levels, it was thought that i may have a tumour and i was about to be sent for catscans.
i guess i'm still just in a bit of shock and disbelief but i wanted to introduce myself.