relationships are overrated
Sometimes I wish people would just swallow their own problems like I did most of the time. It's not that I don't want to listen, and it's not that I don't want to be a good friend but sometimes some problems are better left untold, because even if you tell your bestest friend it wouldn't do any good, for there aren't any logical solution that your friend can possibly think of.
But then again, people just need to vent. To have a shoulder to cry on.
But what if my shoulder got cried on by both sides of the story?? This is too weird. They're both a good friend of mine. They used to be good friends with 'benefits'. Then their relationship started getting out of hand. One fight after the other. They stopped talking to each other. Not long after, the guy started seeing another girl, who just happened to be our friend. See, that's weird.
The problem is I don't want to take sides, but somehow, when they're whining to me, I sort of.. fell for their side of the story. It's a wonder why I can't even come up with one neutral comment like 'Things happen for a reason' when they're in need of some words of advice.
Things happen for a reason. Even I don't believe that. Yet.
But then again, people just need to vent. To have a shoulder to cry on.
But what if my shoulder got cried on by both sides of the story?? This is too weird. They're both a good friend of mine. They used to be good friends with 'benefits'. Then their relationship started getting out of hand. One fight after the other. They stopped talking to each other. Not long after, the guy started seeing another girl, who just happened to be our friend. See, that's weird.
The problem is I don't want to take sides, but somehow, when they're whining to me, I sort of.. fell for their side of the story. It's a wonder why I can't even come up with one neutral comment like 'Things happen for a reason' when they're in need of some words of advice.
Things happen for a reason. Even I don't believe that. Yet.