Problems
Hym... recently a friend told me of a problem he had with a friend... That his fren thought he is not supporting her of the decision she is making.
Well, i am saying this because in life, Many of us will tend to have different perspective on things, Anything.
As much as i appear to remain like i dun care. I am very much affected by things that happen to my friends, and family. And sometimes, these things make me altered my perspective on life. I used to be very persistent about some things. But i know no matter how much i care. I cannot do anything, unless that person is willing to accept it.
And some ppl are weird. They love to ask others for opinions, when they do not expect to hear the truth?
They expect to ask you something, and hope that you will agree with him/her no matter how absurd it might sound. Well, if you are the person giving the "comment" .. you might break or improve the relationship with your answers. It also depend on the person taking it i guess.
And people need to understand that when a friend tell you the truth, he/she is telling you because its that way from their point of view and what they've been thru.
If you cannot accept it, you can choose to throw it away. But there's no need to be angry/or shut that person out of your life because we are individuals.
We celebrate individuality by being different. By being/thinking different doesn't mean we are not friends anymore. :)
Well, i am saying this because in life, Many of us will tend to have different perspective on things, Anything.
As much as i appear to remain like i dun care. I am very much affected by things that happen to my friends, and family. And sometimes, these things make me altered my perspective on life. I used to be very persistent about some things. But i know no matter how much i care. I cannot do anything, unless that person is willing to accept it.
And some ppl are weird. They love to ask others for opinions, when they do not expect to hear the truth?
They expect to ask you something, and hope that you will agree with him/her no matter how absurd it might sound. Well, if you are the person giving the "comment" .. you might break or improve the relationship with your answers. It also depend on the person taking it i guess.
And people need to understand that when a friend tell you the truth, he/she is telling you because its that way from their point of view and what they've been thru.
If you cannot accept it, you can choose to throw it away. But there's no need to be angry/or shut that person out of your life because we are individuals.
We celebrate individuality by being different. By being/thinking different doesn't mean we are not friends anymore. :)