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well. as we know, we live in a world that have friendster, multiply, and facebooks. Many of which reflects our social status.
It seems that we based our social status on a "networking" system which allows us to add friends even when we hardly know the person. And as if we have loads of frenz on the list, we win the race.Ofcoz, frenster used to be a place where i find old pri sch frens. :)
Then some ppl like "networking" in real life. Small talking to everybody.. hoping to get something out of it.. acting frenly to ppl of high social status in the related industry.. eg: bosses
personally if they are genuinely frenly ppl, i will not have any comments against them.. But if they seem to have ulterior motives..
or an ultimate goal that "they could count on that person to get them their next dream job etc.. " i think thats totally digusting.
I believe meeting people in a geniune situation. Because i guess only in these situation will you really remember them, and vice versa.
And if you try too hard at some things, and people.. not only will u break the frenship, you will even leave a bad impression.
Dun be too eager to prove urself to others...especially when you just know them.
If you are capable. Ppl can see that. and will remember it.
Ofcoz, ppl are diversed. And we celebrate differences. Just dun ask everyone else to join in the game :)
It seems that we based our social status on a "networking" system which allows us to add friends even when we hardly know the person. And as if we have loads of frenz on the list, we win the race.Ofcoz, frenster used to be a place where i find old pri sch frens. :)
Then some ppl like "networking" in real life. Small talking to everybody.. hoping to get something out of it.. acting frenly to ppl of high social status in the related industry.. eg: bosses
personally if they are genuinely frenly ppl, i will not have any comments against them.. But if they seem to have ulterior motives..
or an ultimate goal that "they could count on that person to get them their next dream job etc.. " i think thats totally digusting.
I believe meeting people in a geniune situation. Because i guess only in these situation will you really remember them, and vice versa.
And if you try too hard at some things, and people.. not only will u break the frenship, you will even leave a bad impression.
Dun be too eager to prove urself to others...especially when you just know them.
If you are capable. Ppl can see that. and will remember it.
Ofcoz, ppl are diversed. And we celebrate differences. Just dun ask everyone else to join in the game :)