Well...
I don't know if i believe the world anymore. Its all gone topsy turvy...I'll tell you the story, in the really irratating manner that i do, like i'm sitting next to you and having a chat over a cup of tea...
A long time ago, about 2 year, give or take, my ex and I split. It seemed to upset our friends more than it did us. I subsequently lost all of my friends...some do, some don't. Depends on how high up the social pecking order your are, or your new partner is....To them, i had taken a step down, and i was near enough cast aside. Didn't really 'Upset' me persay, just really pissed me off and left a bitter taste in my mouth. These were friends of 6 years...
Anyhow, that wsa 2 years ago. Day before yesterday, Monday it was, i got a phone call from an actual friend, J. He told me that someone had gone into another one of our friends tattoo studio, well a couple had, shooting their mouths off about my partner and I. And apparently we've split up. Amongst other things. I got a very accurate description of who they are. So i do know, exactly who they are. (as far as you can with 2nd hand information) But i do trust the people who gave me the info....
So then, rather than start a row, i just thought i'd let these people know that i know etc etc, without really accusing. Just prick their hearts as it were....I really don't know why these people are interested about my life. Really, its not that interesting, its not dull, granted. Its a bit like a 60's boho commune here at times...without design
Just had to tell someone, its really pissed me right off. I know i should just turn the other cheek, and they aren't giving anything up, but they know i know now, so perhaps they will be a bit more careful on who they spread gossip to. Just really gets to me, why the hell do people spread their bile and lies, jealousy is a horrible thing....
A long time ago, about 2 year, give or take, my ex and I split. It seemed to upset our friends more than it did us. I subsequently lost all of my friends...some do, some don't. Depends on how high up the social pecking order your are, or your new partner is....To them, i had taken a step down, and i was near enough cast aside. Didn't really 'Upset' me persay, just really pissed me off and left a bitter taste in my mouth. These were friends of 6 years...
Anyhow, that wsa 2 years ago. Day before yesterday, Monday it was, i got a phone call from an actual friend, J. He told me that someone had gone into another one of our friends tattoo studio, well a couple had, shooting their mouths off about my partner and I. And apparently we've split up. Amongst other things. I got a very accurate description of who they are. So i do know, exactly who they are. (as far as you can with 2nd hand information) But i do trust the people who gave me the info....
So then, rather than start a row, i just thought i'd let these people know that i know etc etc, without really accusing. Just prick their hearts as it were....I really don't know why these people are interested about my life. Really, its not that interesting, its not dull, granted. Its a bit like a 60's boho commune here at times...without design
Just had to tell someone, its really pissed me right off. I know i should just turn the other cheek, and they aren't giving anything up, but they know i know now, so perhaps they will be a bit more careful on who they spread gossip to. Just really gets to me, why the hell do people spread their bile and lies, jealousy is a horrible thing....