Sep 17, 2007 17:35
you must read this book. i finished it in one night...
"why men love bitches"
let me just say, i wish i read this book 5 years ago.
i would have saved myself alot of pain.
because im a "nice girl" im not assertive. i let myself be walked on. i do everything for my mate. and i need to not. i need to make it special when i do those things, not just do them because i think it will make them happy. esspecially when its not a reciprical thing.
i need to make myself happy. because the person im in a relationship shouldnt be my life, they should just be a part of it.
i suggest every girl read this book. it will keep that spark alive. and treat you how you should treat your man, and how you should treat yourself. and he will have much more respect for you...
im really interested to see how this goes.
because i do (or DID) everything this book says not to. i wait on them hand and foot. and i wait around for them to call. schedual my day around him. all this stupid bullshit and im not putting myself first. MAN IS A HUNTER, AND I GIVE HIM NO HUNTING. im an easy kill. im a freakin deer in an empty field.
so now i will pull back, and i will see if he comes after me.
because lets face it, everyone wants what they cant have.
not to say he cant have me. he just cant have me at his fingertips.
ill stand juuuust out of reach.