Sometimes guy friends are hard to have.
Today I am going to Frankinmuth with my friend Amanda. Should be a good time. I have to hurry up and dry my hair so I can get out the door by 10am.
In other notes. I just kinda, slightly set up a friend with one of my hubby's friends. Her and I are close and she lives in the same town as my parents, who i visit regularly. We have a select few friends that tend to go to the pub with us when we go out, all are guys, we are the type of gals who have more guy friends than gals. So anyhow making a long story short my hubby hardly ever goes with me because he gets bored and therefore I don't push the issue, and thats fine, hes not the jealous type, never was. So i asked one of our guy friends if he would be my wing man should i get invited to go to the bar with my gal friend and her new man. As i don't like being a 3rd wheel to a brand new couple and I like a nice balance, so a friend going along also would be ideal to hang. He tells me NO, that he wont be the pseudo date to the married gal. WTF this is someone who frequently hangs with us. I tell you, marriage makes you the plague in some instances in society. This was asked in a text, and i thought maybe he misunderstood me. I said I was sorry I asked and not to be mad. I did not get a reply text, so is he mad now? My hubby knows I have guy friends, I even told him the situation after and the hubby just kinda shrugged. I mean if he didnt care that i have guy friends since 2004, hes not going to care a year after we signed papers. The point being I am the same gal before and after marriage, papers don't change much. I lived with him way before getting married etc.
In other notes. I just kinda, slightly set up a friend with one of my hubby's friends. Her and I are close and she lives in the same town as my parents, who i visit regularly. We have a select few friends that tend to go to the pub with us when we go out, all are guys, we are the type of gals who have more guy friends than gals. So anyhow making a long story short my hubby hardly ever goes with me because he gets bored and therefore I don't push the issue, and thats fine, hes not the jealous type, never was. So i asked one of our guy friends if he would be my wing man should i get invited to go to the bar with my gal friend and her new man. As i don't like being a 3rd wheel to a brand new couple and I like a nice balance, so a friend going along also would be ideal to hang. He tells me NO, that he wont be the pseudo date to the married gal. WTF this is someone who frequently hangs with us. I tell you, marriage makes you the plague in some instances in society. This was asked in a text, and i thought maybe he misunderstood me. I said I was sorry I asked and not to be mad. I did not get a reply text, so is he mad now? My hubby knows I have guy friends, I even told him the situation after and the hubby just kinda shrugged. I mean if he didnt care that i have guy friends since 2004, hes not going to care a year after we signed papers. The point being I am the same gal before and after marriage, papers don't change much. I lived with him way before getting married etc.