major things to think about
Okay it is finally time to write in this thing. I mean some serious writing. I have been writing in my personal journal (handwritten) and it has helped a ton because I know NO ONE reads that. It is completely locked up and can pour it all out. Here though, I feel like some other parts can hit the fan. Questions can arise. One can hope for responses but considering my friends on this have not even been on for a while, I expect little. These are just random things that popped into my mind.
Life is alright. I got an apartment so I am out of Mom’s house. I am still treated the same, but the two treatments are now flipped. The hurt has decreased though thanks to family and just things to do in general.
I really don’t understand why people say they are going to do things and then don’t follow through with it. If you don’t want to hang out with someone, then don’t say “we should get together sometime”. It’s not being courteous. It’s rude if you don’t mean it. Just say, “It was nice talking to you” and leave it at that.
If someone has a significant part in your life, and you don’t ever at least say thank you for all of the things they have done for you - or at least one thing - I’d bet money their existence will decrease in your life - or at least their availability to help. If you don’t show appreciation, they are going to figure their help is worthless to you or maybe they will think they are just in the way and stop doing it. Then their appearing in your life will go down because depression will set in and they will think their existence in your life is worthless and they will stop coming around.
No one really ever knows how you truly feel about them unless you tell them. We can make assumptions, but assumptions certainly do not get us anywhere, now do they? They definitely have a frequency to mess things up though, that’s for sure! So...I think…and if you think otherwise, feel free to say so…if you have something on your mind about someone, let them know. Whether it be any of the following:
-thankful for their help
-thankful for their friendship
-frustrated with the friendship/relationship
-have feelings for someone intimately
-want to reconnect a friendship/relationship
Just go for it! They can’t read your mind and I’m sure it is something they would want to hear! It could make a wonderful clearing a better friendship/relationship/whatever the case may be!
Sometimes a hug goes a long way. You don’t need a reason for a hug. Give a hug just because. You never know when someone needs one and doesn’t say it.
Okay…that’s all for now…feel free to comment on any of the above!
Have a blessed day!