Help, suggestions?
I am having huge issues with jealousy, made more intense because of the feelings I have about my metamour.
I feel as though my metamour doesn't respect me or the relationship I have with our common partner. I have tried to be friendly/make friends with my metamour because it makes things easier on our partner and because my metamour and I share many common interests, but she has been less willing to be friendly.
There has been a couple of interactions that I consider to be deliberately obstructive (sending only the flight information I need to get our partner to the airport on time and deleting the other information from the airline, only contacting me when a scheduled visit is approaching, etc.) and I am beginning to feel betrayed that our partner would continue the relationship considering how my metamour is treating me.
I would like any words of wisdom, resources, etc.
Thank you.
I feel as though my metamour doesn't respect me or the relationship I have with our common partner. I have tried to be friendly/make friends with my metamour because it makes things easier on our partner and because my metamour and I share many common interests, but she has been less willing to be friendly.
There has been a couple of interactions that I consider to be deliberately obstructive (sending only the flight information I need to get our partner to the airport on time and deleting the other information from the airline, only contacting me when a scheduled visit is approaching, etc.) and I am beginning to feel betrayed that our partner would continue the relationship considering how my metamour is treating me.
I would like any words of wisdom, resources, etc.
Thank you.