LOVE & LUST

Jul 27, 2005 00:20

:::::we all need to learn a few things:::::

the difference between::
love & lust
need & want
physical attraction & attraction to inner beauty

because you see...it's these critical differences that make and break people. broken hearts result from their partner's lust which they confused with love. some say they "love" you, but it's bullshit...they're either saying it to make you happy or because they THINK they love you, which they don't. Too many people say that they are in love. Then they realize...TOO LATE...that they really don't, and end up breaking hearts. if you don't KNOW that you are in love... DONT say it. don't let someone fall in love with you if you know you can't or won't love them back. It's the ones who get blinded by our love and are fooled by liars that get hurt the worst. Some of us actually do fall in love...and our partner says they love us back. But a few days later they decide they don't love you anymore. And find someone else. What makes me the maddest is how some people can be in long relationships...i'm talking a few years...claim that they are soooo in love, then all of a sudden they break up and find new boyfriends and girlfriends. Is this because they need a rebound, or is it easy to like another person b/c they were never in love in the first place.

Love is a strong emotion and is not to be used lightly.

I know that some of you out there just want someone to be with. Need someone to hold and protect them from whatever fears and anxieties they may have. But you confuse that physical need of being held and comforted with being in love. And as soon as someone else holds you, you dont need that first person anymore. It doesn't matter who holds your hand...just as long as you have someone there. But it's confusing to both you and the other person. The other person may think you like them and try to take it to the next level. And so then you mistake your need for attention and comfort with liking the person back. But soon enough you end up breaking their heart because you realize you don't actually love the other person like they might love you. Be sure to discuss your intentions with each other. Be completely honest. Think before you act.

Stop breaking hearts before you ruin more lives.
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