Okay, for those who haven't seen this yet,
bcholmes, someone I'm quite proud to call a friend, has a set of links
here for how you can get help to Haiti. I trust her judgement on which places to send money far more than I trust the UN or our government.
In fact, it's not a bad idea to add her anyway, because she's always got a very different viewpoint on Haiti than one finds in the news or official UN/government reports.