nothing even resembling an organized post. just contrarianism.

Apr 28, 2011 20:19

The Wessay may get finished some day after all. I don't know what possessed me to re-watch AtS S3, but I went for it and am now sucked into the first few episodes of S4 but S3 is pretty brilliant too. Obviously my huge pro-Wes bias is below! locked because it got a little acerbic and ranty, so, fair warning.

love can be a terrible thing )

btvs/ats, btvs/ats: wwp is my boy, rant

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local_max April 29 2011, 01:12:00 UTC
YAY THOUGHTS I love every word and obviously I agree on the Cordelia bits ( ... )

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sunclouds33 April 29 2011, 02:11:44 UTC
The issue isn't so much that it's 'dark' as that he is a bit blind to the way he can be manipulated by English father figures who make claims to rationality. And it's pretty galling to assume that Fred and Gunn are so gone on the Angel-train that they will refuse to listen to him if he's right and not have any valid positions if they're wrong.
See, I agree wholeheartedly that Wes has his emotional spots like always wanting to make the tough, manful decision or being easily manipulated by British logical men. However, I actually think that Wesley ended up being proven rather right after the fact that Fred and Gunn are so much on Angel's side that they wouldn't listen to Wesley. I generally don't like to make "proven right after the fact" arguments and I'll even agree that Fred and Gunn hadn't proven such Angel-obeisance. However that Angel gets no repercussions from them about trying to suffocate a human, a former partner in his hospital bed makes me think that Wesley was right to assume that Gunn and Fred were carried away with Angel- ( ... )

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pocochina April 29 2011, 03:52:47 UTC
However that Angel gets no repercussions from them about trying to suffocate a human, a former partner in his hospital bed makes me think that Wesley was right to assume that Gunn and Fred were carried away with Angel-worship to the point that their logic was blocked.

Right? RIGHT? Aside from the act itself - which, trying to smother a helpless (see what I did there?) person in a hospital bed is not exactly proof of good character, particularly not if it's prefaced by, "I AM TOTALLY IN MY RIGHT MIND RIGHT NOW, JSYK," - the way everyone let it all go suggests Wesley didn't pull the his fears of uncritical Angel partisanship out of his ass, you know?

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vamp_mogs April 29 2011, 04:23:12 UTC
However that Angel gets no repercussions from them about trying to suffocate a human, a former partner in his hospital bed makes me think that Wesley was right to assume that Gunn and Fred were carried away with Angel-worship to the point that their logic was blocked.

I don't think that has anything to do with hero worship. I think it's because they were just greatly sympathetic to Angel considering he just lost his baby boy, and the only child he was ever going to have. They were all pretty pissed off with Wes at that point which wouldn't have necessarily been the case if he'd come to them beforehand.

I just think Gunn and "Angel worship" and two very unmixy things. I don't see it.

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pocochina April 29 2011, 05:01:32 UTC
And trying to take away the only life Wesley was ever going to have was what, an endearing prank? They do excuse and minimize Angel's violent behavior, even when he was acting out of vengeance and bloodlust (as opposed to an attempt to help the helpless, you know, before someone gets dead).

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vamp_mogs April 29 2011, 06:56:48 UTC
As I said, at this point they’re all pretty furious with the guy so I think it has far less to do with “hero worshipping” Angel and more to do with them just finding him more sympathetic at this point. They all felt betrayed by Wes and they all were grieving for the loss of that baby. The only reason they don’t come down harshly on Angel is because they’re incredibly angry with Wesley too. It’s not because they’re blind to Angel’s faults or don’t think he’s capable of darkness.

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pocochina April 29 2011, 23:52:06 UTC
I think you are making my argument for me! Wesley acted to save a life and Angel acted to take one, full stop - but they are sympathetic to Angel because of their emotional involvement with him.

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local_max April 30 2011, 01:19:37 UTC
The back-and-forth makes me realize that there are two (extremely rough) ways of framing this--because in the Wes vs. Angel who-did-worse argument, there are intentions and results. Wes' intention was to save a life and Angel's was to take one (or at least to emotionally torment a guy by letting him know that his life is worthless, which, not much better). But the effect of Wes' decision is (apparently) a dead baby and the effect of Angel's decision is that Wes is still alive despite him. Maybe, in addition to the emotional investment, the siding with Angel is related to looking at the 'end results' (Connor: dead, Wesley: alive) rather than the actual motivations and degree to which they were right to begin with. I feel especially with Cordelia, who is developing into I'm-good-so-what-happens-must-be-good-we're-champions-we-deserve-everything/you-two-are-together-therefore-you-were-always-meant-to-be is going to use the fact that Connor is probably dead on return to assume that Wes was wrong to do what he did, because she's ( ... )

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pocochina April 30 2011, 07:26:48 UTC
True, though the who-did-worse argument isn't one I particularly wanted to have (TOMORROW WE'LL ALL TALK ABOUT SEEING RED, IT'LL BE A PARTY!!!), so much as an examination of why they acted/reacted the way they do, and I'm aware I'm being a bit of a...I won't say devil's advocate, but certainly thoroughly arguing Wesley's reasoning.

Maybe, in addition to the emotional investment, the siding with Angel is related to looking at the 'end results' (Connor: dead, Wesley: alive) rather than the actual motivations and degree to which they were right to begin with

That's reasonable, and normally I'd be a bit more sympathetic to that approach.

But...I know it's a mistake to look at the 'verse with real world logic (or any logic at all, HEYOOOOO), but this whole conversation - OUR FRIEND deserves the benefit of the doubt, no matter what the likely cost - is why we need mandatory reporting laws, for starters. And why they don't work as well as we'd like them to, to tragic effect. I wish I were being OTT with the SUCH A GOOD GUY thing up there ( ... )

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local_max April 30 2011, 13:30:43 UTC
Haha, well if it helps actually the main reason I piped in at all was to get to the point about Cordelia which I had to build up to. :)

Anyway...

But...I know it's a mistake to look at the 'verse with real world logic (or any logic at all, HEYOOOOO), but this whole conversation - OUR FRIEND deserves the benefit of the doubt, no matter what the likely cost - is why we need mandatory reporting laws, for starters. And why they don't work as well as we'd like them to, to tragic effect. I wish I were being OTT with the SUCH A GOOD GUY thing up there, but, not the case. Child protective services aren't an option for a kid who doesn't exist, but Wesley's general thought process here is the one we need people to have. I get that this isn't Judging Amy, but for this to be the one depiction of something along these lines, where the end result unproblematically validates the whole culture of apathy and silence around child endangerment...it's so fantastically exceptionalist.That's an excellent point. I think part of the problem with the ( ... )

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pocochina May 1 2011, 06:42:09 UTC
I think part of the problem with the whole presentation in the show is that, for me at least, it was never clear that/whether Wesley was concerned about the curse endangering Connor. If you take out the happiness clause then it's just a bit harder to see why Wes should be concerned, and I think the fact that everyone around Wes takes the sex=happiness thing seriously is part of that.

ahaha. Well, I tend to assume Wesley thinks as I do, which isn't as unfair as it would normally be. (I'd imagine the whole Darla debacle would've brought that home fairly recently.)

Faith and Willow are some of the best examples of people who needed external guidance somewhere along the way but couldn't have it because the system is broken for the magic people.

good point. And they do both come around, by making use of those systems in their own ways. eventually.

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vamp_mogs April 30 2011, 05:35:13 UTC
I think they’re sympathetic to Angel because they feel just as betrayed and hurt by Wesley’s actions. They had just as much (perhaps even more in the case of Gunn) emotional involvement in Wes as they did Angel. I think if Wes had come to them in the beginning and told them about the prophecy there’s just no way they wouldn’t consider it because they’re too emotionally involved with Angel. The only reason they take Angel’s side here is because of how Wes went about handling this and how he, inadvertently, just cost Connor his life (or so they thought).

They’re not angry with Wes because he considered that Angel may hurt Connor. They’re angry with him because he never told them about it, went to Holtz behind their backs, and now Connor has been killed. I think they would have reacted very differently if Wes had confided in them from the very beginning. Gunn isn’t too emotionally involved in Angel to see his darkness (That Old Gang of Mine establishes how Gunn will always mistrust Angel) and Fred makes it clear why she’s so hurt;

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pocochina April 30 2011, 07:13:47 UTC
Oh, well, if their hurt feelings let them excuse murder, that's settled! Or, steering back to the thread, was a part of a pattern Wes was (reasonably) concerned about when he made the (completely non-selfish, and rationally supportable) decision not to seek their counsel ( ... )

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vamp_mogs April 30 2011, 08:43:09 UTC
Oh, well, if their hurt feelings let them excuse murder, that's settled!

I think it’s a little more complex than that. I know you don’t like Angel much at all but hopefully we can at least both agree that it’s totally understandable why he was so angry in this episode. I think many parents would lash out in a similar manner if they were faced with the person who kidnapped their child and got them killed (unintentionally, yes). Murder is never OK (sidebar: I personally don’t think Angel was actually trying to murder Wes, ‘cause if he was Wes would have totally been dead) but there are certain situations where people’s actions can be a little more understandable/sympathetic than in others. In this case I think his friends were far more forgiving of Angel because they realise he was grieving badly.

I'm not sure Fred's lines there can be taken at face value - hindsight 20/20 blah blah blah - and even if they could, Fred is just speaking for Fred and giving advice about Angel. It doesn't count as an explanation from Gunn or Cordelia. ( ... )

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