Mar 07, 2004 22:15
to all the guys out there who need guidance..follow this and u will never go wrong:
CrazGrl21988 [10:04 PM]: girls are stubborn and irrational
CrazGrl21988 [10:04 PM]: u need to understand that
CrazGrl21988 [10:05 PM]: and when something is upsetting them sometimes they dont want to be comforted bc they will take it out on u
CrazGrl21988 [10:05 PM]: and u cant take that personally when they take it out on u
CrazGrl21988 [10:05 PM]: bc its not about u
CrazGrl21988 [10:05 PM]: its about everything
CrazGrl21988 [10:06 PM]: and usually when they are upset like that they are feeling really low about themselves and they need to wallow in self pity for a while b4 they can have anybody reassure them
CrazGrl21988 [10:06 PM]: but when they are done wallowing they will need the reassurance
CrazGrl21988 [10:06 PM]: and thats where guys come back in
CrazGrl21988 [10:07 PM]: thats ur job lol
CrazGrl21988 [10:07 PM]: wait until she comes to u and then u can tell her how amazing and beautiful she is and how much u love her just the way she is bc most likely shes been wishing she was something or somebody else
CrazGrl21988 [10:08 PM]: you cant cut the wallow period short, if you do..
CrazGrl21988 [10:08 PM]: then she has reason to be mad at u altho u saw no reason for it
CrazGrl21988 [10:08 PM]: its an unspoken reason and thats why its so irrational and why they are stubborn
CrazGrl21988 [10:09 PM]: which brings me back to the original statement about girls being irrational and stubborn lol