Private to Hinamoribook_kittyJuly 29 2006, 09:23:53 UTC
I'm assuming you mean your virginity, right? I can give you some information, but it will be rather graphic. If you would rather not know, just delete this comment.
======== It depends on a lot of factors -- assuming you mean heterosexual sex, one large issue is the size of your vagina versus the size of your partner's penis. Then there's your partner's level of experience. Has he had sex with a woman before? If so, he probably knows some tricks to making you feel good, versus a fellow virgin, who wouldn't know what to do to loosen up your vaginal walls. For virgins, the presence of the penis is a strange and often uncomfortable thing, as their vaginas have never needed to stretch to accomodate a foreign object like that. Then, of course, there's the pain of breaking the hymen.
If you are planning to do it, I would advise you to make sure A) it's what you both want B) you're both in a stable relationship and C) you're prepared. You know how to use a condom, you know about any risks of sexually transmitted diseases, and so forth.
Lastly, don't let the first time turn you off. It really does get better, especially once your partner realizes that foreplay is the best part. ♥ ========
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It depends on a lot of factors -- assuming you mean heterosexual sex, one large issue is the size of your vagina versus the size of your partner's penis. Then there's your partner's level of experience. Has he had sex with a woman before? If so, he probably knows some tricks to making you feel good, versus a fellow virgin, who wouldn't know what to do to loosen up your vaginal walls. For virgins, the presence of the penis is a strange and often uncomfortable thing, as their vaginas have never needed to stretch to accomodate a foreign object like that. Then, of course, there's the pain of breaking the hymen.
If you are planning to do it, I would advise you to make sure A) it's what you both want B) you're both in a stable relationship and C) you're prepared. You know how to use a condom, you know about any risks of sexually transmitted diseases, and so forth.
Lastly, don't let the first time turn you off. It really does get better, especially once your partner realizes that foreplay is the best part. ♥
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I'm sorry for rambling on so! I hope this helps.
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