I am a pretty open-minded girl, cant help that I am only *really* attracted to men (as in, for a couple-type relationship), but I get hit on a lot by other women!
Plus, I love the L-word. I think it is normal for women (of any orientation) to find other women sexy - women ARE sexy. I think sexuality is more fluid than we know/care to admit.
Hiya K ! I am quite sure you do get hit on by lots of women -- you're gorgeous :) How cool that you watch the L-Word ... it truly has a lot of hotties, and you're right, regardless of one's preferences/orientation, women are indeed sexy, period. And yes, sexuality is much more fluid than most would want to admit ... trust me, what is shared with me behind the closed doors of therapy on that topic would absolutely prove that theory ! The thing is : open-minded and mature folk like yourself can talk about these things without batting an eye and can do so confidently, because you know WHO you are and who you want to be with. It's those folks who have really strong, rigid views that have lots of issues about sexuality --- it's mostly based in fear and what they are afraid to even open themselves up to. See, it's times like this that we could have a fabulous discussion over coffee at the cafe ... damn, wish we didn't live across the entire world from one another ! Be well hon ~ xxxx K
Ah dearest K ... so where shall we meet for coffee, my end of the world or yours ? I like the idea of meeting in Australia, given that I've never been there and have always longed to. I know we'd have hours of fascinating conversation ! I truly do hope to make a trip there at some point --- will need to keep tabs on airfares, etc... So interesting about your dream ... would love to hear more about your uncovering of our past lives --- like, were we both women, both men, male-female; were we good friends, lovers; what part of the world were we ... now I really wish we were having that cafe discussion ! My thoughts will be with you as you will be starting your new position in a matter of 8 hrs or so, if my time calculations are correct ? (it's 10:45a here) Best of luck --- show 'em what you got girl ! xxxx love you ! ~ K
Darlin -- I'd meet you at the Grand Canyon for coffee anytime ! I have never been either and it's on my list of places to see ! Just tell me when (I'm serious !) How interesting re: our past lives ... lovers, the tents, wolves nearby, tribal ... it's a very similar "feel" to the women's retreat wkend I go to each year in the fall that I've written about and shared with you ---- we're in woods, in tents, there is drumming and I have to tell you that not only have I been so drawn to this environment over the years, but since I've "met" you , when I was there this past year (I think I may have shared this with you), it was something that I had wished you could've experienced with me and I felt very very strongly about that. It's really something how these things, when expressed and explained, make so much sense. God, we really must meet for that coffee .... so much to discuss !!!!!! I'm soooo very glad you had a good first day at your new job, can't wait to hear all about it. love you right back ~ xxxxx K
I am a pretty open-minded girl, cant help that I am only *really* attracted to men (as in, for a couple-type relationship), but I get hit on a lot by other women!
Plus, I love the L-word. I think it is normal for women (of any orientation) to find other women sexy - women ARE sexy. I think sexuality is more fluid than we know/care to admit.
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I am quite sure you do get hit on by lots of women -- you're gorgeous :)
How cool that you watch the L-Word ... it truly has a lot of hotties, and you're right, regardless of one's preferences/orientation, women are indeed sexy, period. And yes, sexuality is much more fluid than most would want to admit ... trust me, what is shared with me behind the closed doors of therapy on that topic would absolutely prove that theory ! The thing is : open-minded and mature folk like yourself can talk about these things without batting an eye and can do so confidently, because you know WHO you are and who you want to be with. It's those folks who have really strong, rigid views that have lots of issues about sexuality --- it's mostly based in fear and what they are afraid to even open themselves up to.
See, it's times like this that we could have a fabulous discussion over coffee at the cafe ... damn, wish we didn't live across the entire world from one another !
Be well hon ~
xxxx
K
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I must have a good aura or something!!
One day, maybe even SOON, we will have this discussion in a cafe somewhere - life is great like that :)
How good would that be, to meet for a coffee, talk about spirituality, sexuality, psychology, archetypes - woohoo.
Oh, and that dream I had of you? Past life dream it was. We are past life buddies :D
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So interesting about your dream ... would love to hear more about your uncovering of our past lives --- like, were we both women, both men, male-female; were we good friends, lovers; what part of the world were we ...
now I really wish we were having that cafe discussion !
My thoughts will be with you as you will be starting your new position in a matter of 8 hrs or so, if my time calculations are correct ? (it's 10:45a here)
Best of luck --- show 'em what you got girl !
xxxx
love you !
~ K
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not sure of genders, at least one woman,
lovers, a very pure love, but perhaps secret, we lived in tents
wolves nearby
got a tribal feel
hey, i had a good first day! I meet some nice people. will post about it soon
love you too!
xxxx
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How interesting re: our past lives ... lovers, the tents, wolves nearby, tribal ... it's a very similar "feel" to the women's retreat wkend I go to each year in the fall that I've written about and shared with you ---- we're in woods, in tents, there is drumming and I have to tell you that not only have I been so drawn to this environment over the years, but since I've "met" you , when I was there this past year (I think I may have shared this with you), it was something that I had wished you could've experienced with me and I felt very very strongly about that. It's really something how these things, when expressed and explained, make so much sense. God, we really must meet for that coffee .... so much to discuss !!!!!!
I'm soooo very glad you had a good first day at your new job, can't wait to hear all about it.
love you right back ~
xxxxx
K
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