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in the past year i've lost some friends. some i've been burned by painfully, some with which things just fell apart, and some that couldn't survive a fight. but a trend i've noticed between these people is that they don't have very many friends from high school. i am starting to not trust people who don't still have friends from high school. i think the likely reason they don't have those friends is not because they didn't have any friends in their awkward teen years, but that they lack the ability to sustain a friendship. mostly it seems like they are not motivated to put effort in and figure they'll always get new friends.