the stalker returns
Now my hesitation in joining facebook was that people i did not to find me would. And sadly a few have (but my profile is VERY limited if you're not on my friends list, and then you can always block em, so i dont really worry now). This last one was funny in a sense.
So this was my pseudo-stalker as i call him. I dated him back in like 2002-2003. We went on a total of 3 dates. He was an asshole, and treated me so badly our last date (not so bad the first two), that i told him he was an asshole and i didnt wish to date him later on that night on AIM. Later on he started to IM me, and back then, not having a spine or any realization that i can control my life, i thought that if someone IMed me i had to respond (yes i know that's stupid, now). Sometimes the conversations were very neutral, but often he was an asshole to me. He would tell me things like that i had an aggression problem, and that when he was a famous screenwriter i'd be sorry (i wont be sorry but if he's famous i'm so selling this story to the inquirer). After i moved to North Carolina (late 2004), i realized that i had power to control my own life (hooray for the latent spine!). So i said to him over AIM "I get nothing out of talking to you. You always insult me and act rudely. I am not going to speak to you ever again. Dont IM me anymore i will not respond". And i have not since then. He however, continued to IM me. I figured eventually he'd get the point and stop, but after 6 months of him still IMing me even though i would never say a word back, and him saying crazy things like that he loved me, i decided this was too creepy and i blocked him. (so now we're talking early 2005)
Still every few months he would send a friend request in YIM under a different screenname than what he had used prior but i knew they were him, so i always blocked him. The last time he did this was late 2006.
So a little while ago i got a friend request from a guy who i did not recognize, figured it was someone random and ignored the request. Then i got a message and it was like "how are you doing? long time no talk". And i thought "he knows me? who the fuck is this?". And after a while it hit me that it was my stalker! So guess what? i blocked him on facebook. I saw from his profile he's in a relationship, poor woman. i think now i have eliminated the ways for him to find me minus drastic means, i am not on my space.
So this was my pseudo-stalker as i call him. I dated him back in like 2002-2003. We went on a total of 3 dates. He was an asshole, and treated me so badly our last date (not so bad the first two), that i told him he was an asshole and i didnt wish to date him later on that night on AIM. Later on he started to IM me, and back then, not having a spine or any realization that i can control my life, i thought that if someone IMed me i had to respond (yes i know that's stupid, now). Sometimes the conversations were very neutral, but often he was an asshole to me. He would tell me things like that i had an aggression problem, and that when he was a famous screenwriter i'd be sorry (i wont be sorry but if he's famous i'm so selling this story to the inquirer). After i moved to North Carolina (late 2004), i realized that i had power to control my own life (hooray for the latent spine!). So i said to him over AIM "I get nothing out of talking to you. You always insult me and act rudely. I am not going to speak to you ever again. Dont IM me anymore i will not respond". And i have not since then. He however, continued to IM me. I figured eventually he'd get the point and stop, but after 6 months of him still IMing me even though i would never say a word back, and him saying crazy things like that he loved me, i decided this was too creepy and i blocked him. (so now we're talking early 2005)
Still every few months he would send a friend request in YIM under a different screenname than what he had used prior but i knew they were him, so i always blocked him. The last time he did this was late 2006.
So a little while ago i got a friend request from a guy who i did not recognize, figured it was someone random and ignored the request. Then i got a message and it was like "how are you doing? long time no talk". And i thought "he knows me? who the fuck is this?". And after a while it hit me that it was my stalker! So guess what? i blocked him on facebook. I saw from his profile he's in a relationship, poor woman. i think now i have eliminated the ways for him to find me minus drastic means, i am not on my space.