But that is like saying it's okay to murder someone if you got into a road accident that killed someone, since you already "kind of" did it.
I'm sorry I don't read your every post or constantly check livejournal, just calm down. I wasn't aware you didn't want to be a teacher at all anymore.
I just don't understand why you wouldn't want to make things better. No one can judge you for nudes accidentally being leaked, especially if that was the only thing tied to your name. But you want to make it worse? I just don't get it I guess.
It would affect more jobs than just teaching.
And you may think it is wrong for an employer to screen you like that and maybe it is, but when it comes down to you and another applicant exactly like you, they will go with the other person just because of your internet presence. Sucks, but it's true.
It is never too late to start over.
Speaking of banks have you ever applied to one? You have a degree and are a smart lady, if you went in as a teller you could easily work up to a higher position. Then, you could make enough money to move out on your own.
Or have you thought about getting another degree? School is always a great option.
I'm not trying to bring you down or insult you but I think you are a good person. I know what it is like to live at home and feel like your parents are making your life harder than it should be. You just get depressed and hate doing everything.
Have you thought about moving in with your brother for awhile? If you worked hard you could save enough to be able to find a place to rent with a co worker or find someone asking for a roommate on Craigslist.
Problem is I love doing photos, and if I like/enjoy doing gravure, I don't see it is wrong. I really don't. I don't have much I enjoy to begin with, so if cosplay/photos are what I enjoy, than so be it.
And I don't see it as being worse than the nudes, since none of these photos will be nude. :D
And I don't want to teach, nor do I want to work as a bank teller. Maybe I'll have to do telling, but not teaching. But I like Target, and I want to see where that would go, and retail does not really care about personal lives, otherwise they'd have no employees.
I really want to do a career where I can do the things I enjoy AS A CAREER. If not, I'll settle for something else, but I'm not going to stop having fun and living my life.
I'm sorry I don't read your every post or constantly check livejournal, just calm down. I wasn't aware you didn't want to be a teacher at all anymore.
I just don't understand why you wouldn't want to make things better. No one can judge you for nudes accidentally being leaked, especially if that was the only thing tied to your name. But you want to make it worse? I just don't get it I guess.
It would affect more jobs than just teaching.
And you may think it is wrong for an employer to screen you like that and maybe it is, but when it comes down to you and another applicant exactly like you, they will go with the other person just because of your internet presence. Sucks, but it's true.
It is never too late to start over.
Speaking of banks have you ever applied to one? You have a degree and are a smart lady, if you went in as a teller you could easily work up to a higher position. Then, you could make enough money to move out on your own.
Or have you thought about getting another degree? School is always a great option.
I'm not trying to bring you down or insult you but I think you are a good person. I know what it is like to live at home and feel like your parents are making your life harder than it should be. You just get depressed and hate doing everything.
Have you thought about moving in with your brother for awhile? If you worked hard you could save enough to be able to find a place to rent with a co worker or find someone asking for a roommate on Craigslist.
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And I don't see it as being worse than the nudes, since none of these photos will be nude. :D
And I don't want to teach, nor do I want to work as a bank teller. Maybe I'll have to do telling, but not teaching. But I like Target, and I want to see where that would go, and retail does not really care about personal lives, otherwise they'd have no employees.
I really want to do a career where I can do the things I enjoy AS A CAREER. If not, I'll settle for something else, but I'm not going to stop having fun and living my life.
Thanks for the opinion, but my life is my own.
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