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Well it's the same old same old at my house. The boys get curious... play with stuff they shouldn't and whammo it's a battle.... Not between me and the boys... Although I do discipline them I am trying not to yell. Don't get me wrong I am not condoning miss behavior, I just don't think yelling and screaming at children is correct. I also hate people criticizing my parenting skills.. I am not a perfect parent by far. However to threaten me about how I raise my children is totally wrong I don't care who they are. I get so tired of "I'm going to move out..." or "You need to move out.." and then.. "Oh no don't go" "We want you to stay it's better for everyone" The hell it is... I feel like a yo yo.. I am so sick of being afraid of the rug being pulled out. I get so sick of feeling like a moocher one minute but the next if they think they can get money from me I am more than welcome to stay... or if someone needs something it's ok for me to be there, but its not ok for me to need anything.. Oh and it's not ok for the boys to laugh or play... They can't touch anything.. and get blamed for everything that has been broken with no real proof of wrongdoing. Yet these things that get broken are junk and are never used anyway. I know it is the principal of the thing.... However they are still young and are still learning.. EVERYONE makes mistakes. Yelling and threatening does not a lesson make. This is not helping to make me feel better it's just making me more mad.