"funny" haha? or "funny" uh-oh?
So, we got all packed and trucked up to reno to live with my dad... His place while not filthy per se, well the bathroom ceiling threatens to collapse any second and it has quite the population of roaches. So i had to rent a car - a MAJOR ass pain out of state when u have no major credit card and ur hubby has no licsence-
to return my friend josh home (he drove up with us and was a godsend in this whole move thing) AND to get some of the rest of our stuff that didnt fit on the truck. The apt complex trashed the place 1 day early and threw out stuff that was obviously packed and set aside. They were looking like they were going to try to repo my car ( that i am selling on friday we tenatively) but i was able to get it towed off 1st. I ended up hiting big traffic going to reno via 680/ sacramento and was stressed b/c My friend Tony was the 1 that garnered us said renta car and i didnt want to f*** up his credit etc. So i got to dads and had to go again for car return, no biggie. I hadnt been in touch with them since my phone a: is bay area only and b: requires a wall outlet to charge and i only had a car at the time. ( its josh's now tho i do have it for a day or 2 at the time of writing this) So i get home go for dinner with the hubby , grab a paper for classifieds and go back. Dad wants to go to bed and is insistent on lights out. Fine. I go outside for some light etc ( slso i am scared of the roaches eep!) and my dad comes out screaming at me about how worthless i am , that i am a parasite ( this from the man that lived @ his mother's til a month after she died when he was evicted- he was @ least 45 ) that i am a drain to everyone and poor shawn etc. so the long and the short of it is my husband- to scared to go with me was effectively stolen by my father and all of my belongings are in storage in reno and my cats are living with my dad and husband in a decrepit hotel room in the middle of the goddamned desert.
I am currently backin cali to sell my car then i think i might be off to seattle. I have some $ 2 sets of clothes my backpack and the jewelry i was wearing. Oddly i feel free for the 1st time in my life. We shall see how it suits me i suppose. Once i get on my feet i can send for my cats and hubby to join me, thankfully my grandmother has deposit $ for an apt for me- i just have to find a sublet and job in the meantime. so thats the news- i shall update when i can. wish me luck, GOOD luck even.
to return my friend josh home (he drove up with us and was a godsend in this whole move thing) AND to get some of the rest of our stuff that didnt fit on the truck. The apt complex trashed the place 1 day early and threw out stuff that was obviously packed and set aside. They were looking like they were going to try to repo my car ( that i am selling on friday we tenatively) but i was able to get it towed off 1st. I ended up hiting big traffic going to reno via 680/ sacramento and was stressed b/c My friend Tony was the 1 that garnered us said renta car and i didnt want to f*** up his credit etc. So i got to dads and had to go again for car return, no biggie. I hadnt been in touch with them since my phone a: is bay area only and b: requires a wall outlet to charge and i only had a car at the time. ( its josh's now tho i do have it for a day or 2 at the time of writing this) So i get home go for dinner with the hubby , grab a paper for classifieds and go back. Dad wants to go to bed and is insistent on lights out. Fine. I go outside for some light etc ( slso i am scared of the roaches eep!) and my dad comes out screaming at me about how worthless i am , that i am a parasite ( this from the man that lived @ his mother's til a month after she died when he was evicted- he was @ least 45 ) that i am a drain to everyone and poor shawn etc. so the long and the short of it is my husband- to scared to go with me was effectively stolen by my father and all of my belongings are in storage in reno and my cats are living with my dad and husband in a decrepit hotel room in the middle of the goddamned desert.
I am currently backin cali to sell my car then i think i might be off to seattle. I have some $ 2 sets of clothes my backpack and the jewelry i was wearing. Oddly i feel free for the 1st time in my life. We shall see how it suits me i suppose. Once i get on my feet i can send for my cats and hubby to join me, thankfully my grandmother has deposit $ for an apt for me- i just have to find a sublet and job in the meantime. so thats the news- i shall update when i can. wish me luck, GOOD luck even.