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There is only so much of a cold shoulder one can take before you give up. I don't know what I've done, but one girl at work that I used to be close with is now no longer talking to me, and it is now being noticed by other people now. She used to talk to me all the time and we would go for lunch together, but some sort of event has occurred, and now she doesn't even acknowledge me. I have tried making small talk with her thinking she just has been having a bad day, but she just turns her back on me. When she did that I just knew to give up. I was talking with another girl whom I mentioned to her if she noticed it. And she has we went over the possible events and this is what we have come up with.
1. I decided to not do the paramedical thing with her because 3 jobs and a boyfriend would be too much for me. If I hadn't met B I may have done it but that life event happened so deal with it. Besides she doesn't need me to hold her hand does she?
2. Things with me and B are going really well and she is jealous because her and her bf are not so good. I'm sorry my bf has shown me affections by sending me gifts to work, i can't help it that we get along so well.
3. I've been giving advice to the girl in the lab that she seems to be trying to get fired. The personal reason, a boy, which is not her bf.
It is possible that all 3 events are the cause of this cold shoulder, because they all happened at the same time. Reason 1 is very understandable. Reason 2 not my problem. And reason 3 goes against my beliefs. Picking on someone because you do not like them and telling the boss every petty thing is not kool in my books, and makes me kinda glad that I've learned that she can be such a bitch.
It kind of bothered me maybe because I have been trying to figure out what I did. But now that i've thought about it and discussed it with someone else who is seeing it from a different angle, I'm not so bothered by it. It's her loss really.
That's really the only drama that's been happening in my life.
1. I decided to not do the paramedical thing with her because 3 jobs and a boyfriend would be too much for me. If I hadn't met B I may have done it but that life event happened so deal with it. Besides she doesn't need me to hold her hand does she?
2. Things with me and B are going really well and she is jealous because her and her bf are not so good. I'm sorry my bf has shown me affections by sending me gifts to work, i can't help it that we get along so well.
3. I've been giving advice to the girl in the lab that she seems to be trying to get fired. The personal reason, a boy, which is not her bf.
It is possible that all 3 events are the cause of this cold shoulder, because they all happened at the same time. Reason 1 is very understandable. Reason 2 not my problem. And reason 3 goes against my beliefs. Picking on someone because you do not like them and telling the boss every petty thing is not kool in my books, and makes me kinda glad that I've learned that she can be such a bitch.
It kind of bothered me maybe because I have been trying to figure out what I did. But now that i've thought about it and discussed it with someone else who is seeing it from a different angle, I'm not so bothered by it. It's her loss really.
That's really the only drama that's been happening in my life.