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As i told erika, i'm gonna post about something my daddy always tells me. Whenever something bad happens, he always reminds me "Life is full of dissapointment, so get used to it." This is very true. And crazy as it sounds, i'm really grateful that i've been told this so often. When bad stuff happens, i get mad, but eventually i think, "screw it, it happens".
Why is life dissapointing though? Is it to make us stronger? Thats crap, you can become a stronger person through other things. But whatever. The downside to this mindset, of course, is that you end up not looking forward to anything and always expecting everything to go wrong. I'm pretty sure i've developed a trust complex, i guess i don't really trust anyone, i always expect that things wont turn out how i'd like them to and that what i want to happen wont happen. Sometimes i think this is a bad thing, that i should really enjoy things more and be happier all the time and not worry about things that haven't happened. BUT, to be honest, this way is a lot easier, and safer. Even if i'm not so happy all the time, I always think, "at least i wont get hurt so easily", i feel like i'm a step ahead of other people and i'll be able to deal with things better.
hahahaha, i have to laugh at myself, cuz it's such a depressing sounding thing, but hey, whatever gets you through the day, right?
Why is life dissapointing though? Is it to make us stronger? Thats crap, you can become a stronger person through other things. But whatever. The downside to this mindset, of course, is that you end up not looking forward to anything and always expecting everything to go wrong. I'm pretty sure i've developed a trust complex, i guess i don't really trust anyone, i always expect that things wont turn out how i'd like them to and that what i want to happen wont happen. Sometimes i think this is a bad thing, that i should really enjoy things more and be happier all the time and not worry about things that haven't happened. BUT, to be honest, this way is a lot easier, and safer. Even if i'm not so happy all the time, I always think, "at least i wont get hurt so easily", i feel like i'm a step ahead of other people and i'll be able to deal with things better.
hahahaha, i have to laugh at myself, cuz it's such a depressing sounding thing, but hey, whatever gets you through the day, right?