Life changes
Everything in life chances. It may not seem like it changes in your favor, but for some things the bad chances are actually in your favor because that part of life wasn't meant for you and God wanted to spare you anymore pain in life. Sure it's bad & hard at first, but once you realize it as life starts to get better, you start to tell yourself that life is actually better without that part of your life around. Better aspects of life always come to those who truely want it and go after it. You can't recapture the past, because if you do it could cause you more pain, frustration, stress, heartache, etc. than before. Let the past BE the past and embrace the new future that has been laid out before you. Even if you can barely see it, it's there for the taking. But passing it by makes it the past and no longer yours.