NEW YEAR, MUM, RAMBLING AND DOCTORS…OH MY..
I am soooo sorry for being so late with everything, but I hope this post catches up on the most important things…..
For zomzoms, thank you for the keyrings, they came ot pretty well I think
NEW YEAR
Wednesday before New Year, my brother called to hear if Sarah could come and stay with me until Saturday, thus spending New Year with Mum and me. Of cause she could and we had some wonderful days and a Happy New Year.
Sarah and I went to the movies and watched "Megamind" - it was actually great;)
Balder in my New Year Eve hat
Sarah is writing a speech, like our Queen does every year. Sarahs speech was amazing, covering how Balder was there to help Grandma, now that Granddad had died..almost made us cry...
Sarah and me being silly;)
Celebrating New Year
MY WORK AT REVA
As you know I am doing job training at an IT & MEDIA training place, 2hours 45 minutes four days a week. The idea is to find out if I am able to do actual work in the future…I know I am not, but the Municipality has the last word and they have a lot of rules. So I’ll have to go through all their plans until they might agree to give me the disability pension that I want.
DOCTORS TALK
When you got through a job training like I do, you have to talk to a Doctor of their choice.
So just before Christmas I had my talk. It took around two hours, and Mum was with me all the way…he was nice enough, but he wanted to know about things in my past that I had buried with my psychologist. That was hard to talk about, but I got through it.
Then last Friday, I got his conclusion, almost five pages….most of it was ok, but one thing he came back to over and over, was that I was overweight and that might be why I have all those pains and not the side effects as I say..that made me kind of angry and sad.
I have been overweight all my life and I have never ever had a problem with it. I have been a house cleaner for four years and just got an education as a care helper 3 weeks before I got diagnosed with cancer. Me being overweight has never been a problem before and ahs nothing to do with my chemo and radiation damages.
So today I wrote a note to be attached to the papers about this.
MUM
Mum…she is hanging in there as best she can..she have had to get the Boxer Bongo put down.
Bongo was my Dads dog through and through..when dad died in August Bongo actually got a depression. He was happy to be with Balder, but outside he got aggressive towards other dogs, something he’d never done before.
Mum couldn’t handle him and cried every time she walked him.
So now he is cremated and my idea is that we take a bit of his aches and put it on Dads grave every time we visit him;)
Mum has gotten a new apartment too. It is the block over me, making her three doors away from me..she will be moving in 1½ month, so she and I have a lot of cleaning out and packing to do. We can’t rely on my sister or brother, so it is just the two of us…On Wednesday a moving company is coming to look the apartment over, the same one that moved Mum and Dad from Fjellerad three years ago.
Wednesday is also Mums 61st birthday. For now it seems that I’m the only one to celebrate her and one of her presents - Dean Winchesters ring that I ordered the 3rd of January - haven’t arrived yet…
But it is my day of from work, so I’ll do my best to make it a happy one.
A FEW PICTURES
I got a new hair cut last Friday. My hair was driving crazy, so I got it cut, and I really love it now.
My new hair
I think I have told you all, that I love rubber ducks^^ so here you can see my collection.
The one made of perls, Sarah made for me for Christmas, as in her words ”You love rubber ducks so much it is almost weird”;)
My rubber ducks
Last but not least; If I’ve missed out on something here or forgotten anything that I’ve promised, please let me know..don´t feel shy, if I have promised you something and forgotten about it, please remind me..my memory is very bad..
For zomzoms, thank you for the keyrings, they came ot pretty well I think
NEW YEAR
Wednesday before New Year, my brother called to hear if Sarah could come and stay with me until Saturday, thus spending New Year with Mum and me. Of cause she could and we had some wonderful days and a Happy New Year.
Sarah and I went to the movies and watched "Megamind" - it was actually great;)
Balder in my New Year Eve hat
Sarah is writing a speech, like our Queen does every year. Sarahs speech was amazing, covering how Balder was there to help Grandma, now that Granddad had died..almost made us cry...
Sarah and me being silly;)
Celebrating New Year
MY WORK AT REVA
As you know I am doing job training at an IT & MEDIA training place, 2hours 45 minutes four days a week. The idea is to find out if I am able to do actual work in the future…I know I am not, but the Municipality has the last word and they have a lot of rules. So I’ll have to go through all their plans until they might agree to give me the disability pension that I want.
DOCTORS TALK
When you got through a job training like I do, you have to talk to a Doctor of their choice.
So just before Christmas I had my talk. It took around two hours, and Mum was with me all the way…he was nice enough, but he wanted to know about things in my past that I had buried with my psychologist. That was hard to talk about, but I got through it.
Then last Friday, I got his conclusion, almost five pages….most of it was ok, but one thing he came back to over and over, was that I was overweight and that might be why I have all those pains and not the side effects as I say..that made me kind of angry and sad.
I have been overweight all my life and I have never ever had a problem with it. I have been a house cleaner for four years and just got an education as a care helper 3 weeks before I got diagnosed with cancer. Me being overweight has never been a problem before and ahs nothing to do with my chemo and radiation damages.
So today I wrote a note to be attached to the papers about this.
MUM
Mum…she is hanging in there as best she can..she have had to get the Boxer Bongo put down.
Bongo was my Dads dog through and through..when dad died in August Bongo actually got a depression. He was happy to be with Balder, but outside he got aggressive towards other dogs, something he’d never done before.
Mum couldn’t handle him and cried every time she walked him.
So now he is cremated and my idea is that we take a bit of his aches and put it on Dads grave every time we visit him;)
Mum has gotten a new apartment too. It is the block over me, making her three doors away from me..she will be moving in 1½ month, so she and I have a lot of cleaning out and packing to do. We can’t rely on my sister or brother, so it is just the two of us…On Wednesday a moving company is coming to look the apartment over, the same one that moved Mum and Dad from Fjellerad three years ago.
Wednesday is also Mums 61st birthday. For now it seems that I’m the only one to celebrate her and one of her presents - Dean Winchesters ring that I ordered the 3rd of January - haven’t arrived yet…
But it is my day of from work, so I’ll do my best to make it a happy one.
A FEW PICTURES
I got a new hair cut last Friday. My hair was driving crazy, so I got it cut, and I really love it now.
My new hair
I think I have told you all, that I love rubber ducks^^ so here you can see my collection.
The one made of perls, Sarah made for me for Christmas, as in her words ”You love rubber ducks so much it is almost weird”;)
My rubber ducks
Last but not least; If I’ve missed out on something here or forgotten anything that I’ve promised, please let me know..don´t feel shy, if I have promised you something and forgotten about it, please remind me..my memory is very bad..