i don't get it...
I don't get why he does this to me...all i wanted to do was be his everything and i guess its not good enough..obviously and for some god forsaken reason i stick around...why...beats the hell out of me. I just miss him a lot right now. I see what i'm missing and it drives me crazy. he had the best personality and he was always making me laugh and
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Which means that women minimise or deny their experience when they are subjected to emotional abuse and domestic violence. They deny that what they're experiencing is emotional abuse or domestic violence.
They believe that the problems in the relationship are their fault. Their partner's anger towards them is their fault! As they see it, the recriminations, the fault finding, the silent treatment and the fights are all somehow their fault. Even the partner's behaviour, drinking or failure to keep a job are their fault. (SELLING WEED!)
Which means that they feel more and more worthless, weak and unhappy, however successful they may look from the outside. So they lose their energy, their confidence and their sense of self, until they become a shadow of their former self. They're isolated, lost and fearful; afraid to reach out to others and afraid to let others reach out to them. They're ashamed to let others see what they think they've become.
You just have to be glad that it didnt work out between you two. I know it hurts but everything happens for a reason. The reason is he is abusive.
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