perhaps its comments like this that make lia feel the way she does.
lia babe, i know you probly feel so alone, and i know its all hard. i wish i could give you some decent advice, but im lost for words myself at the moment. your a great chick and you deserve the best in life. just remember if you ever need a friend, ill always be here.
My only criticism is the fact that lj and the internet don't equate to your real and close friendships. The people that are meant to be your close friends are those who you see and spend time with, those who take care to see how you are every now and then, who talk to you because they enjoy your company. Real friends are not those who simply suck up to you on echild or like to read about your misery on lj. The internet is not an instrument to judge a person by. It's a pastime, it's not life. And if you have lost the distinction between real life and the internet that's the problem. I think it is good that Lia has made the decsion to end all the bullshit internet relationships which she *might* have been taking too seriously.
Lia and I both know each other well enough to know where we stand. She knows I am here if she needs a friend. Your critosing my comment Jess, when you have no idea what your talking about. You and I have never been friends, because we have different views on what `friendship` means. So some people turn to the internet, because they feel they can better express themselves this way and some people do not. Weather they are spoken words or not, who the hell are you to judge weather they meaningful or not.
You gained my respect a long time ago Lia. You were always the first to pipe up when I was having dramas. You have always put other peoples feelings before your own, as painful as that can be it takes a very strong heart to do that. Something I havent always been able to do.
But yeah, all the best - your true friends will pipe up.
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lia babe, i know you probly feel so alone, and i know its all hard. i wish i could give you some decent advice, but im lost for words myself at the moment. your a great chick and you deserve the best in life. just remember if you ever need a friend, ill always be here.
take care babe xox
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I think it is good that Lia has made the decsion to end all the bullshit internet relationships which she *might* have been taking too seriously.
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so dont try and sound like you know about it !
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that make you wonder if your friends are there for when you really need it.. or if its just a load of words to make them sound better?
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Your critosing my comment Jess, when you have no idea what your talking about. You and I have never been friends, because we have different views on what `friendship` means.
So some people turn to the internet, because they feel they can better express themselves this way and some people do not. Weather they are spoken words or not, who the hell are you to judge weather they meaningful or not.
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im glad you are not my friend i dont need insecure people like you in my life =D
that is all!
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i know your "real" in person and in persona
you have always cared about my feelings and not just what i say and do
Ill let u know my new lj too
xox
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Make sure you do :o)
Mwah oxo
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