Double standard
There has always been a double standard in our day to day life, and I have accepted it, most of the time I agree with it. If a woman wants to be a cop, firefighter, in the military, anything really physical and where other peoples lives are at risk. I think it is dangerous to have a lower standard for women, it puts the men around her in danger. It is the same in relationships, if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys or on a first date she is a slu$ a man on the other hand gets a slap on the back. I have know this double standard since I was a young woman, my Dad taught me all the things that Dads tell their daughters. He made no bones abut it though women and women are different and that is just how it is, none of this bothers me too much is if you do not put out then you are a tease. There is no way to win this is what terrifies me about going out into the dating world, Just because I agreed to dinner does not mean that I am going to put out to say thank you. Lets be honest I am not even going to kiss you goodnight, even if you walk me to my door. Oh and just because we went on a date does not mean that I want to learn all your turn ons, and get texts hinting at things we could be doing, I do not understand when it got this way/ What happened to days when offers his arm as you wank down the street, opens your car door for you, ok opens all the doors for you, what happened to being polite? I do not want to go back into the dating pool to be perfectly honest most of the guys in there should be drowned to not only keep them reproducing, but to keep me from wasting my tome going out with a loser. Boys have it so easy, if not for the boy parts I would want to be a boy.