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I tend to make mountains out of molehills but I've been having trouble in paradise. As most of you know I have a great boyfriend named Matt. We've been dating for almost a month and we get along great. He's gorgeous (I'm not the only one who thinks so), sweet, athletic, smart, and practically Mr. Perfect. The only problem with our relationship is Jeanette. Jeanette is one of my best friends and she is dating Matt's best friend Kevin.
Matt and I got in a small argument because both of us were having a hard weekend. He had just lost a basketball ball game against a school they were sure they were going to win against, and I was kinda irritated that we hadn't been able to hang out by ourselves in like two weeks. So we fix the problem in less than 4 hours or so and Jeanette finds out like 2 days later and calls me (while I'm home sick and puking) while at the boys' game and yells at me saying the fight was my fault and telling me about all the things wrong with me.
She's mad because I didn't tell her about this fight between Matt and me. I didn't think it was important cause we fixed it and part of me is scared of her. She's little but mouthy. When she yells at people (her parents in particular), she uses every curse word she knows and says spiteful things she doesn't mean. I know this is just how she handles things when she's mad but I'm just not used to being talked to like that.
So now I'm not too fond of her, I'm kinda scared of her in fact, and I can't get away from her because I'm with Matt and Matt's friend's with her boyfriend Kevin. So this is kind of a problem. I told her that our friendship and my relationship with Matt need to remain separate because it could ruin both relationships and she's jut mad that I dont tell her everything. Actually, up until now I've told her everything about what happens with Matt and me. I just don't think she needs a play by play. I am so confused about what to do. I almost dread hanging with Matt because when I'm with him it reminds me of the problems with her and that eventually we have to do something with them. UGH
If anyone has any advice, I'm certainly not against listening to it.....
Matt and I got in a small argument because both of us were having a hard weekend. He had just lost a basketball ball game against a school they were sure they were going to win against, and I was kinda irritated that we hadn't been able to hang out by ourselves in like two weeks. So we fix the problem in less than 4 hours or so and Jeanette finds out like 2 days later and calls me (while I'm home sick and puking) while at the boys' game and yells at me saying the fight was my fault and telling me about all the things wrong with me.
She's mad because I didn't tell her about this fight between Matt and me. I didn't think it was important cause we fixed it and part of me is scared of her. She's little but mouthy. When she yells at people (her parents in particular), she uses every curse word she knows and says spiteful things she doesn't mean. I know this is just how she handles things when she's mad but I'm just not used to being talked to like that.
So now I'm not too fond of her, I'm kinda scared of her in fact, and I can't get away from her because I'm with Matt and Matt's friend's with her boyfriend Kevin. So this is kind of a problem. I told her that our friendship and my relationship with Matt need to remain separate because it could ruin both relationships and she's jut mad that I dont tell her everything. Actually, up until now I've told her everything about what happens with Matt and me. I just don't think she needs a play by play. I am so confused about what to do. I almost dread hanging with Matt because when I'm with him it reminds me of the problems with her and that eventually we have to do something with them. UGH
If anyone has any advice, I'm certainly not against listening to it.....