Oct 14, 2007 21:26
Not really, but sometimes I feel like that's how guys view me. I have at least two female friends who don't talk to me anymore on a part of their boyfriends/husbands not wanting me to be around. Or that's what I am left to gather by what information their friends pass along to me.
Two seems like a high number already but it can no doubt be pushed higher. I have more female friends than guy friends to begin with (what?) and of course they're all with someone. If I try hard enough, I bet I could push that number up to six.
But why don't they want me around? On one hand, I'm almost flattered that they would view me as smooth enough to somehow steal their mate. Sorry, I don't condone, and have never been involved in, cheating (polyamory doesn't count, and no, haven't been involved in that either) so no, I won't steal your mate. Not only that but any sort of relationship involves two people, not just me. It's like they don't trust me nor do they trust their mate to be around me. Whatevers.
And then on the other hand I'm almost flabergasted that they would think I would do such a thing. Ok, fine, I like sex more than the average person, this is a fact. But to think that I would break up an established relationship for as much, or to try to get the woman to come to the dark side is kinda ridiculous.
In short, keep your women away from me.
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