Entry #34 Enemy of the Pate
so tonite i had my first unpleasant confrontation with a member of residence. The parents called so i was on the phone, and a knock came to my door which abruptly flew open slamming into my bed. It was Nishant or however you spell it wanting videos from the wednesday nights coffee house. since i was on the phone i could not oblige him then. I told him that maybe he should wait for permission to enter a room after a knock instead of throwing the door open.I didn;t say this in the most polite of tones, i was slightly pissed off. Now this wasn;t the first time he has done this, he interupted a nap of mine, then got mad because i didn't lock the door. so after the phone call i headed down to the caf to get food andmet up with him, I said that i could probably send him the videos now or at his convenience, to which he told me that he was offended by the way i got mad at him just for opening the door. I said well if it was the first time i could see it, but this has happened before, I told you before not to barge in. Just becuase you knock on the door does not automatically give the right to enter a room. so he is still mad, i said fine be mad, i don't care. Maybe i would not have gotten so pissed off if he wasn't always so condecending. he is in 4B term and always say that my assignments are baby's work and don't require alot of time or attention to them. Last night he told me to be quite and let the grown ups talk. He doesn't listen and always interupts TV shows that he does not want to watch. sure all these are minor things but they piss me off. Am I in the wrong?? did i over-react. Is going to the gym giving me a testosterone high that is making me confrontational?? any thoughts or insights?? am i a psycho??
Graham
Graham