Ah folk wisdom: is it "opposites attract" or "birds of a feather flock together"? Depending on the situation, one can grab whichever is convenient and look super wise. It works for grandma!
My social psych text says that it's actually similarities that draw people together (that's right, I start pouring through my psych text's section on attraction when I start falling for someone :p) rather than the opposite. That makes more sense to me upon reflection to. When I wrote my entry I emphasized the stylistic differences between she and I but I think what makes it work between us is the more abstract personality qualities and belief systems that we share - and I don't mean religion or anything silly like the zodiac poop that people buy into - I mean more along the lines of how she and I feel refreshed at each other's reactions to each others' ideas as though we think, "Finally! Someone else sees it this way!"
Your quote is still the best though: "Love is so gay." :**D
(How do you draw the teary smile again?)
Anyhoo, she's taken off to go battle cougars and bears in the mountains camping but I'd love to go drunken beach visiting with you guys. Sunday 6 pm it is!
Also, any luck finding your SNES? I've always got mine with Mario All-Stars so come pay me a visit!
My social psych text says that it's actually similarities that draw people together (that's right, I start pouring through my psych text's section on attraction when I start falling for someone :p) rather than the opposite. That makes more sense to me upon reflection to. When I wrote my entry I emphasized the stylistic differences between she and I but I think what makes it work between us is the more abstract personality qualities and belief systems that we share - and I don't mean religion or anything silly like the zodiac poop that people buy into - I mean more along the lines of how she and I feel refreshed at each other's reactions to each others' ideas as though we think, "Finally! Someone else sees it this way!"
Your quote is still the best though: "Love is so gay." :**D
(How do you draw the teary smile again?)
Anyhoo, she's taken off to go battle cougars and bears in the mountains camping but I'd love to go drunken beach visiting with you guys. Sunday 6 pm it is!
Also, any luck finding your SNES? I've always got mine with Mario All-Stars so come pay me a visit!
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