Enemy

May 13, 2006 07:39

Our enemy shows us who we truly are and provides us with the incentive and necessities to become the best that we can be. (Dean Fraser) My enemy is my enema. (Dean Fraser) ...
instead of seeing yourself as a victim of the problems and challenges in your life, see yourself as the powerful soul that created the challenges in order to learn a lesson. Gain compassion and let go of judgement towards yourself and others. Integrate the Light and the Dark and see them as equally valuable parts of the whole, the Creation of God. (Jelaila Starr) - www.nibiruancouncil.com
Have you learned the lessons only of those who admired you, and were tender with you, and stood aside for you? Have you not learned great lessons from those who braced themselves against you, and disputed passage with you? (Walt Whitman, 1819-1892 American Poet)

Most of the time your friend agrees with you and supports you - so it is not hard to love him. But your opponent disagrees with you; he believes that you are wrong; he sees your weaknesses and would do his best to exploit them. If you have a blind spot, you can be sure he sees it. To put it simply, your enemy is not willing to give you the benefit of the doubt - he is, therefore, your very best teacher. Your enemy reflects back to you everything that you do not like about yourself. He shows you exactly where your fears and insecurities lie. If you listen to what your enemy is saying to you, you will know exactly where you must make corrections in yourself. Only one who opposes you thus can be such an effective teacher. Why do I say 'love' your enemy. I say love your enemy because if you do not love him you won't value the gift he brings to you. No one can go through life without both allies and opponents. A good ally is willing to oppose you. And a good opponent is the very best ally. When you learn to love your enemy, you demonstrate your willingness to look at all of the dark places within your mind. Your enemy is simply a mirror into which you look until gradually the angry face that you see smiles back at you. To make peace with your enemies, you must learn to see through their eyes, as well as through your own. Then you will develop

last night i spent the most wonderful time with my best friend
She had me open and bare , i ask her to be careful with me tonight because i was just on the edge of falling apart
it was wonderful , it is wonderful to have a friend whom knows your vunerability and whom tells you the truth NO matter what

i called Tim to let him know i love him , because i think i have not told him in a very long time (he got worried)
and i have sms roland to let him know that i thank him for his honesty in our friendship
i have not spoken to David because my heart is in a not and i won`t be able to speak because i know in my heart that he is right in whatever he will tell me and my silent whole is unable to say anything
I have made Shenny laugh so hard, the tears where running down her cheeks
I raised my voice at Richard to let him know , here it stops , do not cross that line
i told Tran that he is my buddy in crime
and i told Siggi that he is fun to be with
i mailed Anita to see if i can help her
i Told Annelie that i am glad i got her as a friend
I miss Nova and June and i hope both of them are save
i miss my family in Germany especially my Mum and Dad
i miss My peachy poh whom passed away last August i still wake up with tears running down my face god bless her little soul
I am wondering if Robert is okay and i wish there would be more i could offer him
I thank Ron for being my nightmare customer , for he makes me better myself at all Times
I thank Fritz for including me in all social events
I thank John for being loyal
and i Thank Ralph my exhusband whom tought me so much including riding my first motorbike ( later,the 850 harley landed in the bush inclusive me , thank you for laughing,we where holding our bellies in pain) you have been a great and loyal friend
there are many more friends and enemys of mine and i think this is the point where i let it go
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