To Wed Or Not To Wed?

Dec 22, 2010 02:28


                                                                          Him that I love, I wish to be free -- even from me.
                                                                                                               -- Anne Morrow Lindbergh

So, Danny and I have been thinking about getting married. No, it does not mean we are ( Read more... )

personal, polyamory, marriage

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vicariance March 19 2011, 19:44:46 UTC
Yes it seems that my fiancée, Llewellyn, and I will be engaged indefinitely. Marriage may never happen. But it probably will. The legal advantages are significant when children are born.

I have two. Llewellyn for three years, and Emily for less than one. Llewellyn and Emily used to be together, but they drifted apart, particularly when Llewellyn found Kayo, her other boyfriend (her third half, haha). She's been dating him for less than a year, but it's very serious. She spends about as much time with him as she does with me (and she lives with me!). Emily I began dating just after her boyfriend-at-the-time moved out of being roommates with me, to live with his mother. He was always trying to convince her to hook up with me, but when she finally did, he lost his shit and completely gave up on polyamory. (kinda went crazy in general, actually).

Here's a lovely quote from a message he sent me over facebook:
So fuck what you think, you ignorant, arrogant, anti-experimental, bias fuck. You run from your body. That is the only way to see what is happening. Fuck you for thinking I just believe what I fancy to. Oh! Humans can be like superman! I believe it. Fuck you. You have no reasoning behind yourself. Mr. "scientific"

You run from your body. You do not explore it, thus ANTI-EXPERIMENTAL. The way you treat yourself, creates an infinite habitual tendency. infinite habitual tendency. Fucking know it all prick.

Yeah he's not the most rational of thinkers :/

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petite_lambda March 19 2011, 22:00:11 UTC
I suspect this guy has mental health problems, and needs help. I hope he has friends and family who can push him to get it.

I loved the "her third half" line! I'm so stealing it! :-)

Llewellyn is such a lovely and unusual name. Did her parents choose it, or she herself did?

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