Rewire your brain! Well. add new wires to the old beast.
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/04/business/04unbox.html?_r=1&scp=1&oref=slogin I have already been changing myself with unconditional-responsibility.
http://www.dreammanifesto.com/concious-business-start-with-unconditional-responsibility.html We need to practice what we want to become. Instead of thinking "I'm like to be like..." Try being like that. Push through the awkward phases and notice it gets easier.
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