Dating Complaints
Me: 6:16 pm
(6:16:04 PM): God i hate trying to date these days.
(6:16:18 PM): Men in society now don't feel like they have to earn anything
(6:16:21 PM): much less women
(6:16:29 PM): they think they just meet them and their either handed them or they're not
(6:16:35 PM): there's no courting, no wooing
(6:16:37 PM): no dating
(6:16:55 PM): just either 'hey you seem cool you belong to me now' or not.
(6:17:00 PM): ughhhhh.
(6:17:15 PM): Romance is dead, and men are turning into robots.
Friend: 6:20 pm
(6:20:30 PM): interesting
(6:21:03 PM): I don't disagree with the trend you observe, but frankly I'm happy that dating has become mellower
Me: 6:21 pm
(6:21:58 PM): You're biased, you're one of the guys! lol
Friend: 6:22 pm
(6:22:50 PM): yeah, but I hate that gender role bullshit
(6:22:51 PM): it kills me
vGODv 6:24 pm
(6:24:09 PM): Whoever the dominant masculine figure in the relationship is should be acting as just that, dammit.
Friend: 6:24 pm
(6:24:25 PM): not all relationships need one of those
Me: 6:24 pm
(6:24:51 PM): but those that have one should if the submissive makes it clear that's what she's looking for.
Friend: 6:25 pm
(6:25:00 PM): sure
Me: 6:25 pm
(6:25:08 PM): My complaint is that I make that vividly clear on all my profiles and whatnot when I meet people
(6:25:11 PM): and they ignore it completely.
Friend: 6:25 pm
(6:25:16 PM): but 9 times out of 10, I'm done with the relationship at that point
Me: 6:25 pm
(6:25:19 PM): and then try to crawl down myf ucking pants the first day they meet me
Friend: 6:25 pm
(6:25:38 PM): I think I've had a grand total of one subby female partner I felt really comfortable being The Guy for
Me: 6:25 pm
(6:25:49 PM): that's because you're spoiled by female availability
(6:25:52 PM): most men seem to be now.
(6:25:57 PM): women give it up too easy now.
(6:26:00 PM): It's disappointing.
Friend: 6:26 pm
(6:26:02 PM): well, that's a matter of perspective.
(6:26:20 PM): maybe sex has become de-commodified. Ethical sluts have destroyed the capitalist underpinnings of the patriarchy.
(6:26:25 PM): Put that in your bong and smoke it.
(6:16:04 PM): God i hate trying to date these days.
(6:16:18 PM): Men in society now don't feel like they have to earn anything
(6:16:21 PM): much less women
(6:16:29 PM): they think they just meet them and their either handed them or they're not
(6:16:35 PM): there's no courting, no wooing
(6:16:37 PM): no dating
(6:16:55 PM): just either 'hey you seem cool you belong to me now' or not.
(6:17:00 PM): ughhhhh.
(6:17:15 PM): Romance is dead, and men are turning into robots.
Friend: 6:20 pm
(6:20:30 PM): interesting
(6:21:03 PM): I don't disagree with the trend you observe, but frankly I'm happy that dating has become mellower
Me: 6:21 pm
(6:21:58 PM): You're biased, you're one of the guys! lol
Friend: 6:22 pm
(6:22:50 PM): yeah, but I hate that gender role bullshit
(6:22:51 PM): it kills me
vGODv 6:24 pm
(6:24:09 PM): Whoever the dominant masculine figure in the relationship is should be acting as just that, dammit.
Friend: 6:24 pm
(6:24:25 PM): not all relationships need one of those
Me: 6:24 pm
(6:24:51 PM): but those that have one should if the submissive makes it clear that's what she's looking for.
Friend: 6:25 pm
(6:25:00 PM): sure
Me: 6:25 pm
(6:25:08 PM): My complaint is that I make that vividly clear on all my profiles and whatnot when I meet people
(6:25:11 PM): and they ignore it completely.
Friend: 6:25 pm
(6:25:16 PM): but 9 times out of 10, I'm done with the relationship at that point
Me: 6:25 pm
(6:25:19 PM): and then try to crawl down myf ucking pants the first day they meet me
Friend: 6:25 pm
(6:25:38 PM): I think I've had a grand total of one subby female partner I felt really comfortable being The Guy for
Me: 6:25 pm
(6:25:49 PM): that's because you're spoiled by female availability
(6:25:52 PM): most men seem to be now.
(6:25:57 PM): women give it up too easy now.
(6:26:00 PM): It's disappointing.
Friend: 6:26 pm
(6:26:02 PM): well, that's a matter of perspective.
(6:26:20 PM): maybe sex has become de-commodified. Ethical sluts have destroyed the capitalist underpinnings of the patriarchy.
(6:26:25 PM): Put that in your bong and smoke it.