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Forty-Fifth Keychain-[Written/Potentially Action for Axel and Xion]

Jun 15, 2010 13:53

If you can't trust your friends, who can you trust?
What do you do when...no.
If something's based on life and de--So...if people you know are keeping secrets from you, should you bother asking them about it until they cave in, or just believe them when they say it's for your own good? How would you know it's for your own good...actually, how ( Read more... )

written, roxas is getting tired of not knowing, axel, sora, roxas loses the waiting game, question for the masses?, xion, seeking answers

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[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 02:04:16 UTC

They don't know. And it's impossible for you to truly know either.

Whether you choose to ask or to believe them isn't something that other people can really advise you on properly I don't think.

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 02:08:49 UTC

How can it be impossible?

Advise me or not, I was just curious if anybody else had any sort of experience.

[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 02:11:18 UTC

Regardless of the path of action you can only truly know one outcome. You can't ever compare, only make what seems to be the best decision at the time.

I'm sure most people have. And most people have probably been on both ends at one point. When people care for others they can become selfish in their desire to protect others.

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 02:17:44 UTC

Even during those times when you make a decision without knowing the outcome? Does that count?

That's why I asked. Why do they become selfish? It doesn't make sense.

[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 02:26:06 UTC

I would say so, yes. Especially then, because you don't know the outcome you can't know which one would have been better. But you can only embrace those choices and believe in the path you walk.

...because they don't realise it's selfish. In trying to protect someone sometimes you end up hurting them.

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 02:38:03 UTC

That's...actually pretty solid advice. I'll keep it in mind.

So basically there's really no way to avoid it?

[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 02:40:50 UTC

You get angry at them, you make your choices and they learn. The opposite is also true. It's because people care that it can be painful, difficult, frustrating, sometimes. But there are other things as well, right?

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 02:51:58 UTC

That's one way to look at it, but it just seems a lot more complicated than that.

[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 02:57:15 UTC

It's always complicated when there are other people involved. Believe in your friend's intention but also believe in your own convictions. You'll find a middle ground somehow.

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 03:19:35 UTC

...thanks. That helps, really. It's really complicated right now, but that's a good thing to do.

[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 03:26:56 UTC

I'm glad it was of some help. Even a little.

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 03:30:40 UTC

It's more information than I had before at least.

[ written ] inheritsfate June 16 2010, 03:34:54 UTC

Only because you chose to accept those words.

Good luck, I'm sure you will find your solution.

[ written ] perplex_me June 16 2010, 03:38:33 UTC

For now, sure.

...thanks.

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