Oh go on then
1. How can I tell if you're angry?
If you don't already know, I'm not about to tell you :P.
2. How should I behave around you if you're angry?
Pretend I'm not, act normally, do not draw attention to the fact or to me. I hate being angry, and usually get over it fairly quickly by myself.
3. How do you want me to behave when you are hurting emotionally? How is it best to comfort you?
Pretty much the same as above, pretend everything is normal and wait for me to get over it, whatever you do don't make a huge fuss, you'll only make me feel worse.
4. Are there things we should not discuss?
There are things I am uncomfortable talking about I suppose, but I am also uncomfortable typing them, I don't actually care what other people discuss though, just sometimes I won't join in.
5. How should I treat you when you are ill?
I'm rarely ill, if I'm ill enough that I'm stuck somewhere, visiting is always nice.
6. What makes you happy that's in my power to grant you?
Uh.. Send me chocolate in the post, that would make me happy :P
7. How would you like us to recognise your birthday?
Just tell me happy birthday without my having to remind you
8. Are there any standing categories of presents that would be appropriate or unwelcome?
Any present is more than I would ask for, so no, although, I suppose there are categories of things that would be inappropriate, like underwear or whatnot, but really, who would even do that?
9. Are there times of the year that are difficult for you? Please explain if you are comfortable
Hayfever season gets to me sometimes, no times of great emotional angst though.
10. Are there important anniversaries in your life?
Just birthdays pretty much, Oh, March 22nd is Dan and my anniversary, that's sort of significant I guess.
11. How do I cater for you if you are visiting me?
Have nice non-alcoholic drinks, also, please tell me to sit down, I was raised not to sit down without being invited to, I have been known to stand in the middle of a room upwards on ten minutes before being told to sit.
12. If I want to contact you, how should I do it?
Mobile phone, or the home phone here if it's urgent
If you don't already know, I'm not about to tell you :P.
2. How should I behave around you if you're angry?
Pretend I'm not, act normally, do not draw attention to the fact or to me. I hate being angry, and usually get over it fairly quickly by myself.
3. How do you want me to behave when you are hurting emotionally? How is it best to comfort you?
Pretty much the same as above, pretend everything is normal and wait for me to get over it, whatever you do don't make a huge fuss, you'll only make me feel worse.
4. Are there things we should not discuss?
There are things I am uncomfortable talking about I suppose, but I am also uncomfortable typing them, I don't actually care what other people discuss though, just sometimes I won't join in.
5. How should I treat you when you are ill?
I'm rarely ill, if I'm ill enough that I'm stuck somewhere, visiting is always nice.
6. What makes you happy that's in my power to grant you?
Uh.. Send me chocolate in the post, that would make me happy :P
7. How would you like us to recognise your birthday?
Just tell me happy birthday without my having to remind you
8. Are there any standing categories of presents that would be appropriate or unwelcome?
Any present is more than I would ask for, so no, although, I suppose there are categories of things that would be inappropriate, like underwear or whatnot, but really, who would even do that?
9. Are there times of the year that are difficult for you? Please explain if you are comfortable
Hayfever season gets to me sometimes, no times of great emotional angst though.
10. Are there important anniversaries in your life?
Just birthdays pretty much, Oh, March 22nd is Dan and my anniversary, that's sort of significant I guess.
11. How do I cater for you if you are visiting me?
Have nice non-alcoholic drinks, also, please tell me to sit down, I was raised not to sit down without being invited to, I have been known to stand in the middle of a room upwards on ten minutes before being told to sit.
12. If I want to contact you, how should I do it?
Mobile phone, or the home phone here if it's urgent