stupid friends with their own stupid ideas in my stupid life!
I'm planning a trip to the Outer banks with 4 other couples, we did it once before and it was awesome. I have a serious hook-up with a house in corolla light from my boss, so I've been in charge of arranging the dates and collecting money, etc.
Now that people are starting to plan food/what to bring down it's a cluster fuck. I'm so annoyed! It is apparent that I am not in charge. There are too many cooks in this kitchen so to speak. i finally emailed to everyone that what makes the group happy makes me happy, and that I was going to let someone else tell me what to bring and organize it. I think it was a bitchy move, but every time i try to organize it someone has another idea. It's not important to me, I'm just trying to help, so I'll help by getting out of the way. However, there is a part of me that still believes I would organize it better, and my ideas are better and I grew up in a family of 8 so I know how much food it takes to feed 10 people for 7 days. But whatever.
I feel a little petulant right now. Petulant and pissy.
Now that people are starting to plan food/what to bring down it's a cluster fuck. I'm so annoyed! It is apparent that I am not in charge. There are too many cooks in this kitchen so to speak. i finally emailed to everyone that what makes the group happy makes me happy, and that I was going to let someone else tell me what to bring and organize it. I think it was a bitchy move, but every time i try to organize it someone has another idea. It's not important to me, I'm just trying to help, so I'll help by getting out of the way. However, there is a part of me that still believes I would organize it better, and my ideas are better and I grew up in a family of 8 so I know how much food it takes to feed 10 people for 7 days. But whatever.
I feel a little petulant right now. Petulant and pissy.