I know late for me to be posting...
O my GOD....! I miss grace people I haven't seen them in, well a week but that's too long, coolest thing happened one of my friends from Alto Frio emailed me there number and I called her and she's gonna meet me this Sunday which is so very cool
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It's not so much us being "mean"...its just that sometimes we're having private convos and you jump in and try dominating them which leads to us getting mad which leads to us saying something (i.e."shut up Tosin!" or "ok...you killed it."), which leads to you getting angry and "annoyed" which leads to you mentioning us in your entry knowing very well that all of us will read it. It's a vicious, vicious cycle.
You "kill" things when you talk because you don't think before you speak. I'm putting that in bold because it's what I think the main reason behind all of this is. You say something off topic to disrupt the other flowing convo we were having, so we tell you "shut the hell up and go away" or you'll say a joke that makes no sense, so we tell you "you killed it". I know whenever I tell you anything mean its either "I wasn't talking to you tosin, shut up" or "that joke just died cuz of Tosin, you fucking murderer", and both could be completely avoidable if you just put some thought into things before you say them.
That one time you were being honest with us and told us "Ok guys, seriously I'm starting to get annoyed, can yall shut up?" and I told you "Well now you know how we feel whenever we're annoyed and tell you to shut up or go away, and then you don't" and we kept on talking. I thought you might have learned what it's like from our side and maybe you'd chill a little bit, but you didn't so we kept on saying "mean things".
Think before you speak. I'm sure if you did that you would see a huge difference in our attitudes towards you and your social skills.
Oh, and Robert is never trying to be cool for Abby. Robert's a nice and cool guy that doesn't have to show off to anyone to get them to like him. He thinks before he speaks so its easier to get along with him. Whenever he gets mad at you, its not because we're all doing it. It's because you really were annoying him by not thinking before you spoke.
I'm tired of bolding things, but I think you get the picture. You mentioned us in your journal knowing we'd all read it so that's just asking for a response of some sort, and there you go. I can't speak for everyone else, but personally I don't hate or even dislike you. Just work on your social skills, think before you speak, and stop trying to be the center of attention and I think you might actually have some nicer stuff to say about us in your journal.
-Roy-
P.S. Thanx for blocking my lj username from commenting...
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