Sep 19, 2010 22:55
I have three children, two boys and a girl.
My sister has two boys, we've discussed a thousand times on how that is great!(enough) She hates paying for daycare and as it is my mother/father care for them more than she does, actual child care, not emotional.
When she had her second, she used to have my mother come over in the morning and feed/watch the new bb while she did her morning routine. Cause heaven forbid she not have enough product in her hair and make up on her face!!!
Well long story short she called wednesday she was pregnant again, I was glad cause I haven't held a bb in a while and it's nice when they are someone elses. Well by friday she had to go to the women's doctor. They told her she was prob miscarrying but there was something funny in her fallopian tube of which tuesday she has to go back for a new ultrasound to rule out a tubal pregnancy.
All weekend long she has been very needy,(she never gets any emotional support from her husband, therefore she leans heavily on our cousin and I) She keeps telling me on how the lab screwed up her bloodwork and thats why her numbers are decreasing, not that she is miscarrying. I've been very blunt with her because she needs not to get her hopes up. More than likely she will have to have surgery and a D and C. Our family has a history of bad pregnancies. I was lucky and never had such problems, but my aunt and mother had very traumatic incidents.
Because of which I expressed my thoughts on her getting her tubes tide at the same time as the procedure.
I don't know what I am trying to say here other than there was going to be a baby, and now more than likely not.